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Do I Look, or Could I Pass, as Female? 3.0

Started by V M, April 18, 2014, 05:41:48 PM

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FalseHybridPrincess

Give hormones the time and Im sure you ll look totally female :D
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Evelyn K

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kasika

Still waiting on HRT. Next month.. hopefully...

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Kara Jayde

#44
Ok, so I'm not asking if I pass since I'm nowhere near passing, being pre-HRT and pre-Laser, but I'd like to know if I sit closer to female than I do man-in-dress. When I look at these photos, I'm much happier than I've ever been and I see my female side more than my old male shell, but the wig is cheap and I'm not wearing makeup since I didn't have an opportunity to put any on (I live with peeps). I have a proper wig on the way, but I kinda like the pink throwaway one hehe...


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Kara Jayde

Quote from: Danniella on April 22, 2014, 05:09:45 AM
Hey all.

I have officially started full-time!

In honour of this, I took a couple photos of some of my new work attire/capsule wardrobe. It's amazing what even just a subtle change of top and jewellery/bag can achieve.

I could spend all day mixing and matching my outfits, taking photos and squeeing...but I thought two was enough for now xD

 

Believe it or not, these two photos were actually taken two days appart from each other...it was only when I put them next to each other that I realised it looks like I am in a character customisation screen...I guess I must stand the same way allot of the time o.O

I LOOOOOOVE my new blazer...although people keep saying I look like a teacher or a psychologist o.O

I'm not certain if this is a good thing or not...I must dedicate some time to further meditate and research my feelings on this matteeeeoooohgod...I totally see what they mean. xD

You look amaaazing Danniella <3

Quote from: kasika on April 23, 2014, 04:07:10 PM
Still waiting on HRT. Next month.. hopefully...



I'm anxiously awaiting HRT as well, I know the feeling :/ I think it'll do wonders on you, based on the photo I see very feminine features ^_^


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anais

#46
I'm really not comfortable putting my picture on a well known website but here goes this is me without makeup or anything. I think I kinda look androgynous.
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Kara Jayde

Quote from: anais on April 23, 2014, 10:00:44 PM
I'm really not comfortable putting my picture on a well known website but here goes this is me without makeup or anything. I think I kinda look androgynous.

http://i103.photobucket.com/albums/m136/esmeyers_cora/15_zpse7ac5814.jpg

I think you look very feminine anais ^_^ love your lips :)


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Alaia

Quote from: Kara Jayde on April 23, 2014, 09:34:28 PM
Ok, so I'm not asking if I pass since I'm nowhere near passing, being pre-HRT and pre-Laser, but I'd like to know if I sit closer to female than I do man-in-dress. When I look at these photos, I'm much happier than I've ever been and I see my female side more than my old male shell, but the wig is cheap and I'm not wearing makeup since I didn't have an opportunity to put any on (I live with peeps). I have a proper wig on the way, but I kinda like the pink throwaway one hehe...

http://imagizer.imageshack.us/a/img836/8050/byul.png
Well you certainly look happy just being yourself. I'd say your gestures and posture gives off a feminine vibe much more than just 'man-in-dress'. Just give it time. I know it's hard being patient with transition, especially in the beginning when all you think you see is a man in a dress in the mirror. Stay strong and just keep looking forward. I've seen some pretty fantastic transformations here that have left me with my jaw to the floor. I think you certainly have potential to do much the same :D



"Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray."

― Rumi
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WaspWoman

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Kasika, I think you are going to do great! You are already well on your way even without HRT.

Kara Jayde, I definitely see real potential here. You have a genuine looking smile and your feminine posing doesn't look forced at all. Also, love the name!

Anais, androgynous? Honey I see nothing but a lovely lady.
Cheers!
- Drew

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Evelyn K

Quote from: Cassie 4 Ever!!! on April 19, 2014, 07:52:48 PM
This is more of do I pass without my hair extensions with my hair the way it is?  ...... Sorry about my messy room today!




Here's the guy version of you ;)

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Sarah84

Quote from: Kara Jayde on April 22, 2014, 04:20:45 AM
Looking good Sarah! I don't think you're passing as a male, all I see is a woman. Hope that's good news ^_^

Great news for sure :-).  I am 3 months on hrt and in stealth and I am hoping for boy mode fail one day...
My real name is Monika :)
HRT: 11.11.2014
SRS: 5.11.2015 with Chettawut
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katiej

Quote from: Sarah84 on April 22, 2014, 03:46:23 AM
Still in a boy/androgynous mode...but what do you think?



I heard someone say that 60% of passing is hair.  And your hair is amazing!   Jealous --> ME
"Before I do anything I ask myself would an idiot do that? And if the answer is yes, I do not do that thing." --Dwight Schrute
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anais

Quote from: Kara Jayde on April 23, 2014, 10:05:36 PM
I think you look very feminine anais ^_^ love your lips :)

Thank you  :) I used to hate my lips when I was a kid but now I like having full lips.
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anais

Quote from: AnnaLee on April 23, 2014, 11:27:21 PM
Anais, androgynous? Honey I see nothing but a lovely lady.

Thank you that's sweet but I think I'm still kinda in that andro stage between male and female. I definitely don't see a woman yet.
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Sydney_NYC

Quote from: anais on April 24, 2014, 08:08:09 AM
Thank you that's sweet but I think I'm still kinda in that andro stage between male and female. I definitely don't see a woman yet.

I think that you do pass. (Maybe as a cis-woman with some masculine traits, but I don't see anything that screams male or transgender.) We are our worse critic and I have the same problem where everyone tells me I pass, but when I look in the mirror, I see mostly male. For some odd reason, when I look at a photo of myself, I'm starting to see more female than male in myself.
Sydney





Born - 1970
Came Out To Self/Wife - Sept-21-2013
Started therapy - Oct-15-2013
Laser and Electrolysis - Oct-24-2013
HRT - Dec-12-2013
Full time - Mar-15-2014
Name change  - June-23-2014
GCS - Nov-2-2017 (Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner)


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Chic

Still pre-everything and I post here too much, but I have a new headband (it's actually a bracelet but w/e) and my friend told me it makes me look more feminine. She also says that my happier personality has made my face look more feminine lately, so yay! <3



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anais

Quote from: Sydney_NYC on April 24, 2014, 05:28:08 PM
I think that you do pass. (Maybe as a cis-woman with some masculine traits, but I don't see anything that screams male or transgender.) We are our worse critic and I have the same problem where everyone tells me I pass, but when I look in the mirror, I see mostly male. For some odd reason, when I look at a photo of myself, I'm starting to see more female than male in myself.

I still present as male, kinda waiting till I'm passable to take the step and go full time but I think I'll never be able to see myself as female. Not much has changed since I transitioned, I lost weight but mostly I still look the same. Maybe with some drastic change like ffs I'll be able to see myself as female.
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Ltl89

Warning: Hot Mess Alert!!!

I felt like showing some pictures of how I look since it's been a while.  Today my sister and I spoke on the phone and had a good conversaition; however, I could get from her tone that she doesn't feel I'll be able to blend or pass.  So, I want honest opinions, that are done in a considerate way.  Do you think I have the potential to one day pass?  I'm not trying in this photo nor do I feel that I do, but I'm just seeing how people see me.  Since I'm still aiming for around June, it's nice to get as much feedback as possible.  I know there is only so much people can say and it's not a guarantee that I will pass, but it's helpful to hear your initial thoughts.  Just be honest and considerate of my feelings.  Thanks!

Just a heads up, I have no makeup on and pretty much just too a photo of me lying around my house.  So yeah, I'm a hot mess.  I'm well aware that I have severe racoon eyes, but I can't get rid of it without makeup.  I promise you I wasn't out all night partying, lol.  I'm just laying around looking a mess and drinking my coffee while reading foreign affairs, lol.  Party! :D


20140425_114514 by LTL89

20140425_114616 by LTL89, on Flickr
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FalseHybridPrincess

@ltl

In the first pick you look female to me , in the second kinda androgynous...

Im pretty sure that a hairstyle with bangs would look great on you and help you pass better...

btw those racoon eyes look cute :D
http://falsehybridprincess.tumblr.com/
Follow me and I ll do your dishes.

Also lets be friends on fb :D
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