Thanks, guys.
Elis, anything I put on will always look femme. It's my face, it can't be helped at the moment. I have dark horn-rimmed ones now, they still look femme. All of the frames in the pics are unisex or men's...
Unfortunately, this is as good as it gets at the moment. I actually think I look most andro without glasses, but my eyes are too messed up to go with contacts more often than once in a while.