Was sitting in Starbucks to meet a guy who answered my OKCupid profile. He never showed. There was one guy of the general age who had walked in, looked around the room and walked out. He had looked at me but quickly looked past me. I didn't get up and chase after him, because I was the only woman in the place sitting by herself, so I figured if it was him he'd have at least asked.
We emailed afterward and it turns out that was him, and he hadn't recognized me from my picture. I'm not sure why not, but he did know I was a trans woman, so if he had clocked me he would for sure have known it was me.
Wouldn't that be seriously ironic karma if he could have been my lifelong soulmate and I end up dying alone because I passed too well?
