I need your frank and dead honest appreciation

[Cristal Lecter]

Hi girls

13 years post transition, I'm still very insecure (even if I hide it well most of the time)

Please can you tell me what you think of me, based on these few photos and selfies? Thank you

And if you can rank me:  1) Ugly 2) Average 3) Pretty 4) Beautiful

[Jenelle]

I see a woman.

[Cristal Lecter]

I see a woman.

thank you very much Jenelle

[chloeD33]

I agree!

[stephaniec]

I see a woman.

ditto

[LizK]

I see a pretty woman...and in the top photo I see a Happy pretty woman

[lostcharlie]

Ahhhh..... Hottie !  single, looking? 

[Evolving Beauty]

3. Pretty (Honestly, no sugar coating)

[leacobb]

I see a woman through and through. A little jellous may i add..

[MichelleZelda]

Wow you've got no reason I can tell to be insecure, i'd totally ask you out.

[emyrinth]

Wow... Gorgeous

[sam1234]

I see absolutely nothing masculine about you. If you didn't tell me, the thought that you had transitioned would never even cross my mind.

sam1234

[Cristal Lecter]

I see absolutely nothing masculine about you. If you didn't tell me, the thought that you had transitioned would never even cross my mind.

sam1234

One of the biggest compliment that someone can tell me

[Cristal Lecter]

I see a pretty woman...and in the top photo I see a Happy pretty woman

Thank you Sarah

[Cristal Lecter]

Wow you've got no reason I can tell to be insecure, i'd totally ask you out.

Thank you Michelle if I can see how you look like may be I would ask you out too

[Cristal Lecter]

I see a woman through and through. A little jellous may i add..

Don't be you look pretty hot yourself

[leacobb]

Thanks cristal xXx

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[cindianna_jones]

I wouldn't even guess and I'm pretty good at guessing. Based on just the photos, I'd say you are very pretty. If you are beautiful inside, that will only make you that much more attractive. Far too many fail to understand that it is the beauty inside that radiates too.

Cindi

[Ms Grace]

The pics aren't loading on my iPad but based on the feedback of others you're doing fine. If after ten years you're still feeling insecure about your appearance maybe a chat with a therapist will help you build stronger confidence.

[Cristal Lecter]

The pics aren't loading on my iPad but based on the feedback of others you're doing fine. If after ten years you're still feeling insecure about your appearance maybe a chat with a therapist will help you build stronger confidence.

Not everything can be fixed by therapy Ms Grace, having gender dysphoria since I was 5-6 years old and living this ->-bleeped-<- for more than 30 years has put its marks on me, you can't suffer, being in pain for such a long time without consequences, I've succeeded to survive 2 suicidal attempts, my transition has been blazing fast (only 17 months total)  but still remain the memories of what I've been thru during my childhood and the years that has followed, remember it was the 70's and 80's in France I was living in 50 000 inhabitants city where transsexuality was not even mentioned....I can surely feel the attempt of kindness of your comments, I really do, but therapy is NOT a magic wand (btw I've been in therapy before, during and after the transition for a total of 3 years and half, and I've accepted to be hurt by my past, since I couldn't find a way out)