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Started by Cristal Lecter, September 04, 2015, 08:43:12 AM

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Cristal Lecter

Hi girls

13 years post transition, I'm still very insecure (even if I hide it well most of the time)

Please can you tell me what you think of me, based on these few photos and selfies? Thank you ;)

And if you can rank me:  1) Ugly 2) Average 3) Pretty 4) Beautiful











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stephaniec

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LizK

I see a pretty woman...and in the top photo I see a Happy pretty woman
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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lostcharlie

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Evolving Beauty

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leacobb

I see a woman through and through. A little jellous may i add..
Will Humanity Live In Acceptance, Love and Hope Or Is It Just A Dream
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MichelleZelda

Wow you've got no reason I can tell to be insecure, i'd totally ask you out.
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sam1234

I see absolutely nothing masculine about you. If you didn't tell me, the thought that you had transitioned would never even cross my mind.

sam1234
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Cristal Lecter

Quote from: sam1234 on September 04, 2015, 12:16:16 PM
I see absolutely nothing masculine about you. If you didn't tell me, the thought that you had transitioned would never even cross my mind.

sam1234

One of the biggest compliment that someone can tell me
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Cristal Lecter

Quote from: sarahtokes on September 04, 2015, 09:37:27 AM
I see a pretty woman...and in the top photo I see a Happy pretty woman


Thank you Sarah
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Cristal Lecter

Quote from: MichelleZelda on September 04, 2015, 10:04:58 AM
Wow you've got no reason I can tell to be insecure, i'd totally ask you out.


Thank you Michelle if I can see how you look like may be I would ask you out too ;)
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Cristal Lecter

Quote from: leacobb on September 04, 2015, 10:02:56 AM
I see a woman through and through. A little jellous may i add..

Don't be you look pretty hot yourself
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leacobb

Thanks cristal xXx

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Will Humanity Live In Acceptance, Love and Hope Or Is It Just A Dream
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cindianna_jones

I wouldn't even guess and I'm pretty good at guessing. Based on just the photos, I'd say you are very pretty. If you are beautiful inside, that will only make you that much more attractive. Far too many fail to understand that it is the beauty inside that radiates too.

Cindi
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Ms Grace

The pics aren't loading on my iPad but based on the feedback of others you're doing fine. If after ten years you're still feeling insecure about your appearance maybe a chat with a therapist will help you build stronger confidence.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Cristal Lecter

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 04, 2015, 04:26:43 PM
The pics aren't loading on my iPad but based on the feedback of others you're doing fine. If after ten years you're still feeling insecure about your appearance maybe a chat with a therapist will help you build stronger confidence.

Not everything can be fixed by therapy Ms Grace, having gender dysphoria since I was 5-6 years old and living this ->-bleeped-<- for more than 30 years has put its marks on me, you can't suffer, being in pain for such a long time without consequences, I've succeeded to survive 2 suicidal attempts, my transition has been blazing fast (only 17 months total)  but still remain the memories of what I've been thru during my childhood and the years that has followed, remember it was the 70's and 80's in France I was living in 50 000 inhabitants city where transsexuality was not even mentioned....I can surely feel the attempt of kindness of your comments, I really do, but therapy is NOT a magic wand (btw I've been in therapy before, during and after the transition for a total of 3 years and half, and I've accepted to be hurt by my past, since I couldn't find a way out) 
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