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What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 2.0

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Megan.

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara
I'm happy for you with the progress you've made.  X

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Laurie

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara

  Proud of you doing this Sara. I know it will not be easy but it sure can be rewarding. More positives from you please.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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davina61

Sara darling , nice one. The first of many and you have a friend that wont judge you (your dog!!!)
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
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coldHeart

Quote from: davina61 on August 11, 2017, 02:46:34 PM
Sara darling , nice one. The first of many and you have a friend that wont judge you (your dog!!!

How do you know my dog Davina, has she been gossiping about me to you.
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tgirlamg

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara

That's my girl!!!!! I'm so proud of you dear sister!!!! :)!!!!!!

Onward We Go!!!

A :)
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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I Am Jess

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara

Congrats girl!!  What a major accomplishment.   ;D
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Kendra

Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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LizK

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara

That is fantastic and a tough thing to do for the first time. I must admit I did find going full-time a huge psychological relief. I hope you have fund and enjoy all the "first time" sensations and challenges of being out and about fulltime.

Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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coldHeart

Thanks ladies
I nearly never made it to this point if it won't for a few fairy godmother's on here so thanks again,
No doubt I will have bad days but if you ever get as low as I have,  you might see a tiny little light shinning way in the distance but run like hell towards it, glad it & never let it go.
Sara.
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Artesia

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara

GO GIRL!!!  Still haven't made it there myself, but the current plan is for October of next year.
All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines

September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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josie76

Awesome to hear Sara!  ;D

Well today I went to the orthopedic doctor for a follow up from an MRI. Let me set the scene. On entry there is a check in desk with a check out side next to it. I followed an older lady in and her daughter about my age. We were standing in line which had backed up behind me a few people. So the girl at the checkout desk motioned toward me and said MAM! The lady in front of me thought she was talking to her as did I at first but the girl at the check in desk was just finished with the person before her. The girl on the check out desk said no I meant HER behind you. I'm sure they don't get many trans women by there, and I've only been there twice before but she remembered me coming in. Funny, the couple of times before I just had on old man work jeans and a tee shirt. This time I had a tee shirt and some Levi's 515 boot cut that followed my legs shape. My hair and glasses are still the same. Although it is currently colored a real stand out deep red color under the floresent lights or in the sun. Just barely getting long enough I don't have to wear a ball cap anymore. I ought to get the back trimmed as its longer than the sides and front but I can't bring myself to do that yet. Maybe when my sides get down to shoulder length I'll get a cut to even it all out.
04/26/2018 bi-lateral orchiectomy

A lifetime of depression and repressed emotions is nothing more than existence. I for one want to live now not just exist!

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Colleen_definitely

Quote from: Sarah.VanDistel on August 11, 2017, 08:51:47 AM
First day of my two-day hair transplantation treatment, in Budapest, Hungary. Arrived 2 days ago together with my wife and two boys and extensively visited the city. Really pleasant and beautiful, despite temperatures of 37°C! Local goulash is reaaaally delicious!


Budapest is an amazing city.  The Irish Cat Pub used to have good food but I was there in 2001, so who knows now.
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Denise

Quote from: TonyaW on August 02, 2017, 03:40:14 PM
Found a 15 page PDF titled "Gender Transition Guidelines for Colleagues"  on the HR website at work today. 

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My company has the same document.  Ours is 10 pages.  3+ in terms and definitions, 2 paragraphs for the transitionee, 6+ pages for everyone else.


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1st Person out: 16-Oct-2015
Restarted Spironolactone 26-Aug-2016
Restarted Estradiol Valerate: 02-Nov-2016
Full time: 02-Mar-2017
Breast Augmentation (Schechter): 31-Oct-2017
FFS (Walton in Chicago): 25-Sep-2018
Vaginoplasty (Schechter): 13-Dec-2018









A haiku in honor of my grandmother who loved them.
The Voices are Gone
Living Life to the Fullest
I am just Denise
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Denise

Quote from: sophie1904 on August 03, 2017, 05:45:15 AM
Today I discovered that my hair is now long enough for a pony tail (of about 3") :)

Only taken about a year of growth :o
That would make me very happy.  I can get most of it but the stubborn few up front aren't long enough.  Oh the wait...
Congestions.

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1st Person out: 16-Oct-2015
Restarted Spironolactone 26-Aug-2016
Restarted Estradiol Valerate: 02-Nov-2016
Full time: 02-Mar-2017
Breast Augmentation (Schechter): 31-Oct-2017
FFS (Walton in Chicago): 25-Sep-2018
Vaginoplasty (Schechter): 13-Dec-2018









A haiku in honor of my grandmother who loved them.
The Voices are Gone
Living Life to the Fullest
I am just Denise
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TonyaW

Quote from: Denise on August 12, 2017, 11:11:07 AM
My company has the same document.  Ours is 10 pages.  3+ in terms and definitions, 2 paragraphs for the transitionee, 6+ pages for everyone else.


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Not a lot of ours pertains to the transitioner either really.  A decent "to do" checklist but a lot of that gets triggered automatically when there is a legal name change. Most was for manager and definitions etc for the "colleagues that are transitioning with you".
Might not be an exact quote.

Whole thing came in handy as a way to approach my manager.  Left a copy of it on her desk last Thursday night  (I was off Fri-Sat-Sun) along with a note about needing to talk to her about it. 

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coldHeart

Dropping a dress size, I'm now an size 8. yippie💖
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HappyMoni

Quote from: coldHeart on August 11, 2017, 01:24:35 PM
My first day trying full time, even walked the dog fully dressed got one or two double takes, one man even put his hand up (sorry love one lesbian here) but it felt SOOOO GOOD.
Sara
Sara, just saw this, I am so happy for you.
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Laurie

Quote from: coldHeart on August 13, 2017, 06:23:38 PM
Dropping a dress size, I'm now an size 8. yippie💖

  Sara, I'm jelly. Put a 1 in front of that 8 and you have mine.  congrats girl.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Sarah_P

Quote from: coldHeart on August 13, 2017, 06:23:38 PM
Dropping a dress size, I'm now an size 8. yippie💖

Congrats! Wish I could get down to that!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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coldHeart

I'm trying to get back to my old avatar size but little miss fatty here had been comfort eating, now its fruit fruit fruit.
Sara
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