Quote from: JeanetteLW on March 24, 2017, 05:21:54 PM
My thoughts on my walk showed my I wish I was a woman and I want to be one, but I don't feel like I am one.
... yet.
From all I've heard, "feeling like a woman" takes time. Years. It comes from living as a woman, being treated as a woman, dealing with the stuff women deal with. Julia Serano (
Whipping Girl) writes, when you've lived as a woman long enough, at some point, there doesn't seem much point in
not saying you're a woman. IMHO, that's what "being a woman" really means, anyway. It's just that cis women have been doing it all their lives.
I've only been full-time for a few months, yet already I see a change in how I see myself. Doing the "woman" thing just seems like life, nothing special, and I'm starting to see myself as just another woman. An old one, ugly one, a fashion-challenged one, but mostly just one of those many women that don't look or live like the ones in cover photos.
The way things are now is not the way they will always be.
The same is true of your relation to your daughter and her family. How they deal with you now is not how they'll deal with you six months from now, when the novelty has worn off, and how they'll deal with you three years from now will be different still.