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Kendra

#40
July 08, 2017, 07:18:18 PM
Sara you updated your avatar again, and you look GREAT!  Davina is right, your recent photo update a few days ago was nice but difficult to see.  Problem solved. 

I am very worried about you but also glad you seem to be heading in a good direction in the past week.  I really really hope you can get to the local group meeting a week from now, and get some much-needed medical care to bridge the gap between now and your HRT day. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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davina61

#41
July 09, 2017, 04:54:38 PM
Sara you look wonderful. XXX Davina
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coldHeart

#42
July 09, 2017, 05:03:29 PM
I,m to my first trans group meeting tomorrow & I,m already a bag of nerves, thank you everyone but you don't have to say I look great because big know I don't.
Sara
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jentay1367

#43
July 09, 2017, 05:08:24 PM
Quit beating yourself up Sara. You look cute as hell in your avatar and besides, we have the rest of the world to kick our asses. It doesn't deserve or need our help.  ;)
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JoanneB

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July 09, 2017, 05:53:29 PM
Quote from: coldHeart on July 09, 2017, 05:03:29 PM
I,m to my first trans group meeting tomorrow & I,m already a bag of nerves, thank you everyone but you don't have to say I look great because big know I don't.
Sara
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Kendra

#45
July 09, 2017, 05:55:39 PM
Sara I agree with some things but not everything.  Ya look great! 

Best wishes for group meeting tomorrow.  Joanne is right. 

I am soooo glad you are going.  I know at the moment it might seem overwhelming, but you will feel better building additional connections.  We are all there with you. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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tgirlamg

#46
July 09, 2017, 06:17:45 PM
Dear Sara!!!

I'm so excited about all that lays ahead for you... I has been so great to see you opening up to the possibilities that life holds and finding the hope and strength within. I'm so proud of you!!!... Like it or not...You are blossoming girl :)!!!!!...

Looking forward to hearing all that tomorrow brings!!!

btw... I think you need to change this thread title to " I WILL SUCCEED!!! "

Hugs and Love!!!

Ashley :)

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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coldHeart

#47
July 09, 2017, 06:29:55 PM
Well the idea is to wear my male clothes on top of my female ones as I,m not out to anyone who dose not live with me THE PUBLIC all tho I,ve been wears woman's jeans trainers for years due to having size 5 feet & 5.2" height but I plan on wearing some thing better than jeans, no one apart from you ladies have ever seen the real me not even the ex wife so it will be the first time or the last time because I can't face it then there's no point taking my transition any further & the the alternative is well...
Ashley I might change it to " I will survive" sure that's a song or "the art of falling apart" now that is a song.
Sara
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Kendra

#48
July 09, 2017, 06:40:45 PM
What you wear to the meeting isn't as important as showing up.  Just wear something.  Total nudity is probably not allowed but I have only attended meetings in Seattle.   ;)
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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tgirlamg

#49
July 09, 2017, 06:43:00 PM
Okay Sister,

I will accept... " I Will Survive" for now!!!....

Don't worry too much about wardrobe for tomorrow... This will be about meeting the group!...getting to know them and letting them get to know you!!!...Wear what makes you comfortable so you can give things your full attention!!!... All will be well :)

Ashley :)

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Laurie

#50
July 09, 2017, 06:50:09 PM
Sara,

  Go to the meeting dressed however you feel comfortable.  It is not important what you wear this time or the next or the next. What is important is that you go. That you go with an open attitude and an outlook that it can help you, Hon. You are not going to show yourself off to the world.  You are going to find support for your transition issues, for help coping with the problems you face and Sara,  you are going to possibly help someone else. Go with an open mind and be honest.

Hugs,
   Laurie

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coldHeart

#51
July 09, 2017, 06:53:12 PM
Kendra you have ruined the surprise now oh well the birthday suit will have to wait.
Your right Ashley Worrying about what to wear is the least of the problems.
Sara
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