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The Official Do You Pass Thread.

Started by Tracey, October 13, 2017, 11:44:00 AM

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Do you pass as your target gender?

Yes
14 (56%)
No
11 (44%)

Total Members Voted: 25

Devlyn

This a simple poll to gauge our self perception. I think most of us know if we pass or not. This is a twist, you tell us if you pass rather than the other way around.

I definitely pass as half man, half woman.  :)

Hugs, Devlyn
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Megan.

Very situational for me I think. I don't pass any close inspection,  but just milling through crowds,  I'm not conscious of many stares. I get more looks when I'm in a skirt or dress,  but that probably applies for cis-women too.

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SailorMars1994

98% of the time I would say yes. I have been called she, her, ma'am, young lady, ect for quite sometime. Naturally it feels nice and right. As if this is how it should have always been. However, Wednesday I was at a job interview and I must say I looked quite feminine, and I was ''he'd'' :/ . Hadnt had that happen in a long time so naturally I was both kinda shocked and upset. I guess it is my voice that give it away?? I dont know why he did that.

In anycase that was one time vs 900 other times the past while so atleast I am on the right road :)
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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mayatis

I'm going to preemptively say "No" even though I haven't started my transition yet, because I'm 6'2", have a jawbone that could plow a wheat field, and have an upper body built like a brick outhouse. As I like to put it, "I'm going to pass like a kidney stone."

Pessimistic? Maybe.
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Bari Jo

Nope, not one bit.  I do have male fail sometimes though though mainly because I act girly and dress a bit femme.  I have a gay coworker that keeps hitting on me, so I definitely give off a vibe.
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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paula lesley

Don't give a...

A van driver did shout ->-bleeped-<- ! whilst I was walking along. I was ok with it until I realized I was wearing biker boots, jeans, baggy t-shirt and a frown  ;) I just give them the finger and shook my head.  >:(
If I'm in full " girl " mode I seem to fade into the background. Do I pass ? **ck knows.


Paula, X.
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Julia1996

I usually pass 100% but after being outed by a child recently I'm going to say I pass 98% of the time.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Bari Jo

Wow Julia your new pict just triggered my GD big time.  You are beautiful, more than 100% passable

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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warmbody28

I feel like I do? but I could be wrong
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Artesia

I would love to say yes.  But I can't.  I have days where I pass, and days where I don't.  It all depends on the observer.

My hair, my unstable voice, my inflections, and some minor actions; all combine to make me not pass.  I am passing more frequently though.
All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines

September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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LizK

Every day I go about my business and I get called Mam, woman, she ,her by all whom I encounter. So long as it is clear that I am presenting myself as a woman I get treated that way...so I guess if that's passing then I pass....until of course I don't.
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Denise

Yes as long as I'm dressed appropriately.  Going too dressy or too casual gets me outed everytime.

Attitude also helps.  Being nervous is a huge tell.  Be who you are.  Own who you are.  Be confident in who you are.

Observe others and mimic.

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1st Person out: 16-Oct-2015
Restarted Spironolactone 26-Aug-2016
Restarted Estradiol Valerate: 02-Nov-2016
Full time: 02-Mar-2017
Breast Augmentation (Schechter): 31-Oct-2017
FFS (Walton in Chicago): 25-Sep-2018
Vaginoplasty (Schechter): 13-Dec-2018









A haiku in honor of my grandmother who loved them.
The Voices are Gone
Living Life to the Fullest
I am just Denise
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Tommie_9

Pass 100% of the time. I'm an Ellen Degeneres type of girl. I see a girl when I look in the mirror without makeup, thank God. Looking like a cute girl without boobs was a curse when I was in high school, but now it's a middle-age blessing.  :eusa_dance:
Finding 'self' is the first step toward becoming 'self'. Every step is part of a journey. May your journey lead to happiness. Peace!
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Colleen_definitely

So far so good.  I don't have any trouble passing as long as I'm dressed the part. 

The real pain in the butt is trying to do boy mode now until I finish transitioning at work.  I get stared at so hard and people just avoid using pronouns at any cost it seems. 
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Tessa James

I pass as Tessa, a transgender person, 100% but I also pass gas 100% so let it go...... ;D
Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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Lady Lisandra

Depending on how I dress and style my hair, I pass most of the time. I even have trouble with looking more gender neutral some days. Damn, I'm loosing my shape-shifting abilities!
- Lis -
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Julia1996

Quote from: Bari Jo on October 13, 2017, 12:35:30 PM
Wow Julia your new pict just triggered my GD big time.  You are beautiful, more than 100% passable

Bari Jo

Thank you. You're sweet.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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SailorMars1994

Quote from: Tessa James on October 13, 2017, 04:18:17 PM
I pass as Tessa, a transgender person, 100% but I also pass gas 100% so let it go...... ;D

Omg you  ::) :laugh:
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
<3
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Devlyn

Quote from: Tessa James on October 13, 2017, 04:18:17 PM
I pass as Tessa, a transgender person, 100% but I also pass gas 100% so let it go...... ;D

This post stinks!   :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
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Sarah_P

I'd say I pass fairly well, except maybe with children. I keep getting strange looks & double takes from some of them, but so far no one has said anything.
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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