What type of guy or girl do you like?

[Sonja]

Weeeeellll...  I'm a lesbian, and a bit genderqueer.   I'm attracted to persons with a strong feminine aspect.  Not necessarily femme, as I also find butch, bois, and some transmen attractive.  It's the feminine aspect, combined with a kind, non-aggressive personality that gets me to start melting.

I should also note that I am demisexual, and really need a romantic connection before I can even get a sexual tingle.  With this combination of traits, it takes a lot to get me going.

SNAP!  - attracted to strong feminine aspect and also demisexual, I have to know a person first otherwise I find any attempt at intimacy cringe-worthy.

Sonja.

[Cassi]

I also am a Lesbian.  As far as attraction goes, I've always been attracted to intelligent/strong women, not necessarily physically strong ones, but ones who aren't for lack of a better word, manbee-panbee.

I am not sure if I have ever had a lesbian encounter though my 2nd wife was kind of dictorial in how to please her, lol.

So, this all will be new to me.  I definitely am not into men and am quite frankly repulsed by them and discussions regarding activities with them. 

I don't mean any disrespect to those who are into them as to each their own so to speak.

[virtualverny]

i'm a gay dude, and i love dark/black curly hair (or dreadlocks, those are hot too), brown eyes, thick eyebrows, big noses, big hands (i have tiny hands so i love the contrast) and glasses. i tend to go for skater type boys, but i think i suit other goths better, so i don't mind

[Cassi]

You got good taste lol same as me.

(O)h (M)an (G)awkers!!!!!!!

[natalie.ashlyne]

(O)h (M)an (G)awkers!!!!!!!

Lol yeap and proud , I apparently check out almost male that walks in to my work, and the girls I work with tell me that I bit my lip and twirl my hair tilt my head and look at him if I like him apparently I am not subtly about it than I giggle when he leaves 

[Cassi]

Lol yeap and proud , I apparently check out almost male that walks in to my work, and the girls I work with tell me that I bit my lip and twirl my hair tilt my head and look at him if I like him apparently I am not subtly about it than I giggle when he leaves

Good for you!

[Julia1996]

(O)h (M)an (G)awkers!!!!!!!

And what's wrong with gawkers? How else are you going to see what's available?

[Roll]

None of those guys do anything for me. They just make me feel like they would be smarmy and self absorbed.

[Transfused]

None of those guys do anything for me. They just make me feel like they would be smarmy and self absorbed.

Don't judge a book by it's cover sweetheart.

If you are a lesbian then guys wouldn't obviously do anything for you.
If you are straight and you have a certain kind of type in guys then that's understandable too.

[Julia1996]

None of those guys do anything for me. They just make me feel like they would be smarmy and self absorbed.

Smarmy! Lol! You're hilarious.

[Roll]

Don't judge a book by it's cover sweetheart.

If you are a lesbian then guys wouldn't obviously do anything for you.
If you are straight and you have a certain kind of type in guys then that's understandable too.

While its absolutely true people will surprise, unfortunately how we present ourselves does matter quite a bit (I think many of us here know that better than most), and the way these guys present just make me think of every jackass guy I've ever met. And I would say the same thing about most actors and models, because they all have that same look! A lot if is that if someone grows up being the "hot guy", the actor or model type, they are inevitably shaped by their environment. And it's certainly not an environment that breeds humility.

I do like guys, but I am definitely partial to a specific type of guy and it is very much a personality thing. The sweet, nerdy type (if I'm playing video games and watching anime and they don't, no thanks! ). I've known so many of them as friends over the years (and as a "guy" so I had ample opportunity to learn their true feelings) that I know they are out there in spades, and by and large they are either overlooked or got lucky and married young (and stayed married). But that's just me.

To put it another way, if someone asks "who is your celebrity crush?", many will say stuff like Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt depending on generation. I'm more likely to say Paul F. Thompkins or Conan O'Brien.

[Julia1996]

While its absolutely true people will surprise, unfortunately how we present ourselves does matter quite a bit (I think many of us here know that better than most), and the way these guys present just make me think of every jackass guy I've ever met. And I would say the same thing about most actors and models, because they all have that same look! A lot if is that if someone grows up being the "hot guy", the actor or model type, they are inevitably shaped by their environment. And it's certainly not an environment that breeds humility.

I do like guys, but I am definitely partial to a specific type of guy and it is very much a personality thing. The sweet, nerdy type (if I'm playing video games and watching anime and they don't, no thanks! ). I've known so many of them as friends over the years (and as a "guy" so I had ample opportunity to learn their true feelings) that I know they are out there in spades, and by and large they are either overlooked or got lucky and married young (and stayed married). But that's just me.

To put it another way, if someone asks "who is your celebrity crush?", many will say stuff like Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt depending on generation. I'm more likely to say Paul F. Thompkins or Conan O'Brien.

You do have a point there. My brother is one of those guys who knows he's a hot guy. I love him dearly but yeah, he can be a concieted jackass who loves mirrors. Tristan is very hot himself and even did some modeling back in Australia but thankfully he's not concieted and is a bit humble. If he was as stuck on himself as Tyler I doubt our relationship would have worked.  When I'm around concieted people I can't help trying to deflate their egos every chance I get. Just my smartass nature I guess.

[kitchentablepotpourri]

I am attracted to men and women. What I find physically attractive in women is a pretty face and a curvy figure; and what I find physically attractive in men is rugged good looks and being height and weight proportional. Personality wise I am attracted to intelligence, humor, sensitivity, and someone who's down to earth. 

[Sarah_P]

To put it another way, if someone asks "who is your celebrity crush?", many will say stuff like Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt depending on generation. I'm more likely to say Paul F. Thompkins or Conan O'Brien.

I love Paul F. Thompkins! He occasionally does things with the Rifftrax guys. I trying to come up with a celebrity myself, and I think Charlie Day is pretty hot, due in no small part to his role in Pacific Rim as an awesome genius scientist.

[Allison S]

I've been into tall asian guys lately. My roommate is asian, tall and muscular. I don't think he likes me anymore since nothing's happened. But I keep fantasizing he'll come to my room and we cuddle. Yeah I'm single and I don't go out much. Being in transition is really a waiting game for me right now.

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[Roll]

I love Paul F. Thompkins! He occasionally does things with the Rifftrax guys. I trying to come up with a celebrity myself, and I think Charlie Day is pretty hot, due in no small part to his role in Pacific Rim as an awesome genius scientist.

Charlie Day is amazing! Definitely would be a top pick for me.

[natalie.ashlyne]

Right now for me if a male has a dog and takes care of the dog it takes pics with it is such a turn on. It can work for any animal fuzzybut especially dog

[Julia1996]

Right now for me if a male has a dog and takes care of the dog it takes pics with it is such a turn on. It can work for any animal fuzzybut especially dog

Absolutely.  If I guy didn't like animals that would be a deal breaker for me. Guys who enjoy hunting too. I realize hunting is the ultimate masculine activity but unless you live in some third world place or Alaska, its not necessary. Guys who hunt for "fun"  and like killing animals totally do not appeal to me in any way.

[Julia1996]

Charlie Day is amazing! Definitely would be a top pick for me.

The dude in the picture is someone's idea of a dream guy?? Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. I also never understood the big attraction to Brad Pitt, Tom cruise, the vampire guys from twilight and Justin Bieber. I had a friend who thought Jim Parsons was really hot. He's an amazing actor and i love big bang theory but a hot guy??? To each their own truly!

[Roll]

The dude in the picture is someone's idea of a dream guy?? Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. I also never understood the big attraction to Brad Pitt, Tom cruise, the vampire guys from twilight and Justin Bieber. I had a friend who thought Jim Parsons was really hot. He's an amazing actor and i love big bang theory but a hot guy??? To each their own truly!

https://www.google.com/search?q=charlie+day&client=firefox-b-1-ab&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiZ-pbh-NLZAhUK7VMKHaAsAeIQ_AUICygC&biw=1600&bih=786

Random Charlie Day image search. The picture posted isn't really typical of him, just was part of a character. He is a comedic actor and writer, and that was just him in awkward scientist mode for Pacific Rim. Key take away from the image search for me? Even in the "Hollywood head shot" pictures where he has perfect hair and complimentary lighting, same as the other random guys posted, he conveys humor and personality. (Though to give credit where its due, that is also why people like Chris Hemsworth have such a large range of appeal. He has the model look but also a personality.)

Pitt and Cruise are just generational!