It baffles me, that people think that being trans is trendy to begin with. It is actually insulting, if I thought that coming out to the world would lead to me being embraced by everyone, having people cheering me on, unconditional love and acceptance, I would have done so years ago. It just goes beyond my level of reasoning to see how people mix transsexual and trendy together.
You know what, perhaps, just perhaps, in some minor circles it is "trendy", in ultra far left minority spots, which almost no one actually belongs to or even has access to. But to the vast majority, I don't see it that way. Back in reality though, where I unfortunately exist, this is not seen as trendy, no one is going to give me a hug when I come out, and tell me how great I am. More than likely I am going to be equated as some weird sicko, that has a "fetish" and looked down upon.
I absolutely hate the word trans trendy, in so many ways. I don't feel this way to be trendy, I don't want to eventually transition so I can be trendy. Who would go through that trouble? I could be trendy as a guy if I wanted to, if my goal in life was to be trendy, I could achieve it. Transitioning to me, is the exact opposite, it is full of fear, I don't expect people are going to treat me nicely, I doubt most TG people will even treat me with any decency.. it is just so ridiculous of a concept to me.
I would never consider anyone who is trans, just to be doing it to be trendy. That is so moronic, it is upsetting to see others honestly feel that way.
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Yeah, it upsets me. I'm sure there are trendy transgenders out there, but I doubt any of them are transgender just to be trendy.