I haven't read any other responses, since I want to give an honest answer.
I transitioned because I was miserable with who I was pretending to be. As an AFAB, I was born with a severe birth defect, and now I'm doing something to fix it. I should have been born male, being called a tomboy my entire life by my family wasn't enough, I needed to be male in order to finally feel happy with my body, and myself.
One of my biggest fears is dying and being buried as the wrong gender, forever thought of as female. Not happening now, especially since I'm recognized by the US Federal Government as being male. YAY!
How I explain it to cis people is, "imagine one day, you wake up in the body of someone of the opposite gender. You know you're X gender, but everyone calls you by the wrong name, and the wrong pronouns. Your social roles change, you're treated differently than you feel you should be, and everything is just wrong. What would you do in that situation?"
I actually had a cis woman tell me "you need Jesus." I'm Pagan and Proud, thankyouverymuch! [emoji14]
Forever feeling "like you were born in the wrong body" is just not something that I feel that most people can ever understand. Its a craptastic feeling, IMVHO, the worst in the world! Feeling suicidal for being born the wrong gender sucks.
Even though it took me way too long to find out I can transition and become the gender I should have been born as, it thrills me to pieces that I can fix this severe birth defect!
Ryuichi
P.S. OOPS! Looks like I'm in the wrong discussion section again! But the FTM section is pretty quiet these days, so I hope you ladies don't mind me hanging out here every now and then.
Either way, sorry not sorry that my answer to the OP still remains the same.
Ryu