There are two things you should keep in mind here.
First, what Susan wrote was in response to a pretty inflamed dispute about whether androgynes were real, or the gender binary was real, or the identities of various people on either side of the dispute were real. Ultimately the point was to stop the discussion from escalating to a forum-wide flame war, or else. Or so it seemed to me, at any rate.
Second, the wiki entry was recently edited by me, and I'd like to delude myself that I've got an insider's view on how it feels to be an androgyne. It's how I see this, and also as close to what I think can be considered a consensus here as I could make it. It's also consistent with my reading of Susan's definitions. However, if someone -- either Susan or one of you -- feels I've crossed some kind of a line, please let me know so I may make any appropriate apologies. On the other hand, if you agree with it, great.
Third (of the two points), I'm more than just a little tipsy right now, courtesy of an office Christmas party. Thanks for indulging me.

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