ever been caught crossdressing? how did it make you feel ?

[deatsabat546]

    when i was younger i used to dress in my moms clothes  i would put them away in the right spots before anyone got home or notice.   one day my mom caught me in her clothes. she yelled at me for a wile telling me its wrong and she better no catch me aging.
i did it a couple more times after that was never caught but my mom was suspicious of me.

     later on  in life i started  to dress in my stepsister clothes  when no one was home at my dads house
until one day she caught me i was scared that she was going to tell my dad and call me a freak.
actually though she was calm  and told me if i ever wanted to browow her clothes all i had to do was ask. it was a great relief and i was happy. 

in my highschool years i got a little braver  started buying my own women  clothes  at deptstores by me. i don't know if i would count it as being caught since  i stared not caring  and would something wear the clothes to school. 

[tekla]

Go to any male strip club,
Really?  Is that our standard now?  Wow.  Strip clubs. 

Though I will say that its' a night and day difference between male strip clubs (with men stripping for woman) and female strip clubs (with women stripping for men).  The performances are much better and more animated, the audience is much more jacked (really, if guys ever acted like that for even a split-second at the Crazy Horse^* they would be 86ed), the music is better, everything about it is better except for the fact that I'm not that into naked guys.

i don't know if i would count it as being caught
Nope, you can't 'get caught' doing something in public that everyone knows about.  You only get caught when you're trying to be sneaky.


* - it's the club next door to where I work - so the 'girls next door' are really are hookers and strippers and porn queens.  Nice.  The Crazy Horse is endorsed by Nina Hartley, old Anal Annie herself, you you know its' some nasty stuff.  And no, I've never been in.

[Bridal Wish]

When my dad saw my dress, he said I might as well had gone out and gotten stoned or drunk.... and I'm the only one of my brothers who hasn't done drugs or alcohol 😀

[krystal_j]

For some reason I wanted to get caught! When's I was around 10 yrs old or so I had some of my moms panties and a few bras under my bed and I pulled out to where they would be noticable. She did them and confronted me about it. She said that I was a boy and not a girl so I should stop wearing her clothes. Then again when I was about 15 yrs old I got the urge to ask my mom if I could wear one of her bras. She said and that if I had one on that id better go take it off. I wasn't wearing one but acted like I was going to her room to take one off. I opened her underwear drawer and closed it then went back to what I was doing. Later that week she took me to a counselor and had me talk to him. I am 24 now and I am dressed up while I am writing this. I have no intention of stoping and my wife enjoys it to!

[Jamiep]

Back about the mid 1950's when I was about 15, I sneaked one of my sisters halter tops and was walking around in my bedroom just before going to sleep. The floor boards squeaked & it brought my Dad up to see what was going on. He saw me in the top. My heart was racing and I was frightened. I think he was too stunned to know what to make of this and firmly said to take it off and go to sleep. We never spoke about this again. After my Dad passed away in 1990, I was going through his papers and found a note addressed to no one about this night, I don't remember exactly what he wrote, but I think for the era he was confused, wondered if he had failed me and didn't know how to understand or deal with the situation.

Jamie

[justjo]

got caught wearing panties when my shorts were to low by my sister

[jenny]

I have been nearly caught once or twice it made me feel scared ,but i still do it,i like wearing sexy panties and tights,i just feel more comfortable in them than traditional men s clothing,after all i am not hurting any one.

i have tried to discuss this with my family but they did not want to listen and belittled me ,made me feel like a kid so i have not spoke about it again 🙁

[jenny]

I have been caught out at work wearing women's underwear,but it makes me feel excited and scared all at the same time,i feel more comfortable in women's under wear than in men's


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[barbie]

i have tried to discuss this with my family but they did not want to listen and belittled me ,made me feel like a kid so i have not spoke about it again 🙁

Welcome here.

In my opinion, you may not need to discuss or justify your feeling. Usually I do not try to justify my wearing my preferred fashion items. Just do it.

Barbie~~

[kikilecker69]

i got caught out when my mother cleaned my room.
my parents wanted me to explain myself .
i didnt say a word because its hard to say that i wanted to be a girl.
we had a ladies and girls clothes shop ,so it was easy to get everything i needed.
i love it to this day
KIKI

[Jamie D]

That pink is ruining me eyes!

[PinkPenny]

I have been caught so many times I have lost count. It made me feel a little more open to the world each time.

[ananymoose]

I've never been caught. Even if I was caught, I've already told my Mom about it, just never done it outside of my own room.
Last night I was almost seen, walking in the kitchen. I never ran so quietly and quickly in my life.

[anita]

I was caught first by my sister when I was a child, I just argued I want to see how I look, like how she wear men's tshirt and pants, lol.

Later around my final year in high school, my mom caught me, wearing a saree. Actually I ran and hid, but I forgot to remove bindi when I came out, 😛 Mom, then asked me to dress up again, i did a partially good job not to reveal how good I normally do.

Then now all my family knows, I live alone in a different place, but future is unknown.

[xxchristina22]

ive only gotten caught once when I was around 10yrs old by my mom. She got so mad and yelled at me which made me cry for hours 🙁 the following day she took me to a psychiatrist at our church. Shes been suspicious of me ever since and im 24 now. Im sure she will have a heart attack or something if I was caught again. So far not a single family member knows *sigh

[DavinaG]

Got caught as a teenager wearing a garter belt and stockings to bed by my dad.  he saw I was hiding something under the covers and was playing around trying to find it.  He grabbed a garter and started pulling, it was attached to me.  Never saw it but dropped it right there.  I was panicing.  Some time later Mom found my stash and confronted me, all I could say is don't tell Dad.

Since then only doctors have caught me but no big deal.  Introduced my wife to it while dating.

[MariaMx]

Once I thought I caught both my parents crossdressing at the same time, but then I realized they had just switched seats  😉


I never got caught, but there were a few close calls. A roommate of mine almost caught me once.


The one incident that stand out the most in my mind was when I was 16 and I was home alone and crossdressing. I remember sitting in the living room crying hoping they would come through the door and catch me, but they didn't. In hind sight I really shouldn't have brushed that so easily afterwards.

[DavinaG]

That reminds me I almost got caught dolled up in lingerie.  My college roommate was out with his girlfriend and I thought I was alone for hours.  About a half hour after they left I heard keys in the lock and the door opening.  I made the fastest 10 yard dash in history to my room.  Boy that would have been interesting!

[Joelene9]

  My mom caught me in bed one night in one of her slips around age 9.  She had a talk with me and thought it was a phase.  I though that I was going to be put away to the asylum.  Threatened to be put away or being left at the orphanage was the "Boogie Man" in those days to keep children in line.  She did put me in a dress, despite my weak protest, for Halloween once.  I did make a haul that night. 
  Joelene

[Julia1981]

I was 16, when i decided to suntan a little in my favorite pair of underwear. It was the first time I had ever went outside wearing fem atire, I lived in the country and had the house to myself. I did my makeup as well, so there i was outside topless in a g-string with make up laying on the patio basking in the sun feeling really good. Then I heard a car pull in the driveway, it was my mother.... I ran to the washroom and started the shower and tried to wash off the makeup in my haste i forgot to get a towel before heanding in also didn't have any cloths ... sooo she was now at the washroom door asking me why i was home and why i was in the shower I just gave her a lame answer she didn't by it she must have known something was up she waited down the hallway and when i opened the door to grab a towel across the way she said nice tan lines and why did you ruin my lipstick ouch ..I was crying at this point and scared and humiliated, i ran to my bedroom and put on my mens cloths and was ready to leave and never come back, angry and disoriented I made my way to the front door when she stopped me and said calm down ... She said she was sorry for saying those things and had no idea i was having these problems .... anyway long story short it was along time before my mother and I could have a normal conversation she just assumed it was a phase but here i am 15yrs later still ruining my lipstick lol