NEWS FLASH. . . CROSSDRESSER EXPOSED
THREE TIMES IN 40 YEARS
In all, three times over some 40 years. The first two, while pretty significant back then, are nothing today but memories. I had started crossdressing with bra and panties about 7th grade (that would have been 1971) The city was a suburb of Oklahoma City. About the same time we had moved. . .
My first real items were a 34B bra and pair of panties, which had been pilfered from my girlfriend who lived down the street. (she did not know.)
At the time, I still had a large can of, get this, tinker toys in the closet. I stashed the cloths in the top, under the lid. Seemed like a GREAT place, till one day when I came home and my mother was sitting at the kitchen table with the things out on the table. . Seems like the next hour was a bad dream as she was giving me the third degree about where I got them and why. Questions I could barely answer myself at that time. . .Thankfully, she never told my father AND she did not make me "march down there and return the things." Very embarrassing at the time.
Fast forward two years, I was in 9th grade, and had gotten a one piece girls gym suit. It was not even that cute in retrospect. I had put on a bra, panties and foam pads under the gym suit and promptly fell asleep on the couch. Brilliant! Mom comes home and BOOM, Caught again. . .This time she just told me to go and take those things off and put some regular cloths on. No questions, no third degree. . In retrospect, I guess she was becoming somewhat accepting at this time.
My mother died a few years later quite unexpectedly and took the secret to her grave, or so I thought. ..
Sometime around 1985 I got involved with the one girl that never approved of my crossdressing. Mind you, she did not forbid it or anything. . just thought it was weird or something. Fast forward a couple of years and we have a acrimonious break up. She does everything she can to try to ruin me. Tells all my friends, parents anyone she could get to listen. I decided at that point, I was not going to be blackmailed and any time someone told me what she had said, I would just acknowledge that, yes, I was an occasional crossdresser. What was amazing was that NO ONE cared. . . I even told my dad (without details) and he said my mother had said something about a "Fascination" with women's clothing a few years before. . ." Well, at least at that point, the cat was out of the bag! Nothing else was said, but did I feel better when I told him that, yes it was true, I did occasionally wear lingerie. No questions, no problems. . . (of course too, I was out of the house by then)
The last one, was about a year ago, and quite the embarrassment. The current wife and I have been married since 2007. She has 3 children, one of which (the Eldest) is out living with his paramour, and had given us a granddaughter. Generally, he and I get along pretty well. He did NOT know about the crossdressing. Then there is another younger brother who was 15 at the time as well as a sister who is 12. They both had been told and knew that I wore lingerie and such. In fact the boy used to get a kick out of teasing me by patting me on the back to see if he could feel bra straps or not. .. Last year for christmans, he gave me one of those stupid clips that convert the back of your bra to a T Back. . I can't complain, he is good with it and the fact that he teases me says a lot. Sister is a little more uptight, but recently asked to borrow some of my "girl socks" That was a trip. . . loaning my step daughter girls clothing!
Ok, So. mom and daughter are gone for the evening and I am at home alone. Younger brother has gone over to big brothers house to play on the X-Box. I am pretty confident, and am sitting in the bedroom on the computer wearing a bra and forms, panties, jeans and soft ballet shoes. I also had the stereo up a bit. At some point the brothers decide to come back and get something for the X-Box. Elder brother does NOT have a key, but younger brother does. Wifes family has a nasty habit of just walking in without knocking. (which apparently, they have always done.) Well, I thought I heard something, and the next thing I know, into the bedroom come walking Elder and younger brother. . .
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"Ah, How about those dodgers? "
Seriously, there was a pregnant pause. . . I had to get up and tell them to get OUT of the bedroom for a minute and to let me change, which they did. Exited bedroom a few minutes later and made a bit of small talk. Told elder brother that now he knew my dirty little secret. and TOLD him he was sworn to secrecy. So, they get what they need and leave. . . I am trying to assess the damage and the rest of the night passes. .
I later find out from younger brother, that elder brother had quickly driven home, laughing his ass off all the way. Got home and spilled it NOT only to his paramour, but her mother as well. . . Fecal MAtter! Apparently, they got a big kick out of it. BUT. . .
I don't have to worry about taking off soft ballet shoes or flats when they come over. I did speak with him at length and asked him to consider how embarrassing that could be. I told him at that point that I really did not care if he told the rest of the family, but would prefer he NOT. . Seems most of her family know about it now. . .no one really said anything.. One night over at the wifes mothers house, we had a large bonfire going and well, many of us had had a beer (or several) and were feeling good. Got to discussing most everything. Turns out my wifes, niece and husband (Early 20's) were into swinging and the conversation turned to sex. Well niece asks me about "crossdressing" and I said, "Yes, its true. . . I underdress" and explained what that was all about. . .
Well, at least after she had a few, she took off her shirt and showed her boobs. . which was a nice treat for a 50 something guy. I do feel strangely liberated about it now. It can't hurt me, and most of the family is too distracted by other things to care. . .
