It dosent make me feel bad or foolish. I have been caught a couple of times. Once when I was 16, my mother went into my closet where I had thrown a yellow long slik night gown of my grandemothers. She called me to my room, lifted up the gown and wanted to know why it was in my closet? when I told her that i had worn it the night before, she wanted to know what was wrong with me and if I need to see a physchologist? she was not happy.
I started dressing in earnest at 50 and since then my wife has caught me with lingerie and even sometimes wearing panties or a slip or both and not being supportive in anyway but against it, she was hurt and mad at the same time. That has happened a few times. last time about 3 weeks ago. We are ok now, but cant ever get caught by me wife ever again. However! I have some friends I work with and have told them that I was a crossdresser and have on numerous occassions, underdressed completely while at work with them knowing. I work on a military base and most my co workers are retired military as I am. I even one hot summer afternoon at work, while working on a manuever firing range asked my friend if he would mind if I took off my t-shirt(I had on a black camisol on under the t-shirt and he knew it) he said he didnt care, so I did. I remembered about 10min later about tan lines so I put my t-shirt back on so I wouldnt get any,and not because it bother him. My brother knows, my youngest son and his wife know and before she passed away, my mother knew. None of them care. Of course, I never dress in front of any of them outwardly, but do so underdressed.
