Go to any male strip club,
Really? Is that our standard now? Wow. Strip clubs.
Though I will say that its' a night and day difference between male strip clubs (with men stripping for woman) and female strip clubs (with women stripping for men). The performances are much better and more animated, the audience is much more jacked (really, if guys ever acted like that for even a split-second at the Crazy Horse* they would be 86ed), the music is better, everything about it is better except for the fact that I'm not that into naked guys.
i don't know if i would count it as being caught
Nope, you can't 'get caught' doing something in public that everyone knows about. You only get caught when you're trying to be sneaky.
* - it's the club next door to where I work - so the 'girls next door' are really are hookers and strippers and porn queens. Nice. The Crazy Horse is endorsed by Nina Hartley, old Anal Annie herself, you you know its' some nasty stuff. And no, I've never been in.