That wasn't even an article. They couldn't even get half their terms right.
I don't know about anyone else, but I sure as hell wouldn't be operated on by someone that couldn't grasp the ever so subtle differences between "neo-phallus" and "neo-vagina".
Quote from: lilacwoman on January 27, 2010, 03:58:12 AM
what a strange bunch of people FtMs are!
I quote from the press release and it's me that is accused of the labelling that Blanchard and Co do!
Nobody has had a go at you personally. They were having a go at the article. And fair enough, it was badly written.
Quote from: lilacwoman on January 27, 2010, 03:58:12 AM
I assumed perhaps naievely that FtMs have the same dislike of their genitals as MtFs do but apparently not and seems to be that the non-op FtM is about the same as the She-male in pretending to be transsexsual but actually loving their birth genitals.
Now I AM having a go at you. That was ignorant, offensive and uncalled for.
SRS is not the same for men as it is for women, and it is a fallacy to compare the two side by side. For one, women actually get something that looks and operates like the non-neo version (with some hard work and effort, of course). We don't get that option.
You see a lot of FTMs not wanting a bottom op
yet because the RESULTS ARE CRAP.
A lot of us are holding out until the tech gets better. Right now with phalloplasty they don't look right, they don't move on their own, you can't feel through them, they cost as much as a house, they mangle what could be viable donor tissue in the future, and they have a nasty habit of turning black and dropping off.
Where the hell did you get the idea that we are "like" she-males (an offensive term in itself), not real transsexuals, and love our birth genitals?
It's got nothing to do with birth genitals. Most of us hate ours - it's just that the options we have to correct them are, well, absolutely pathetic at this point in time.
What so many of us are holding out for is a penis that looks and functions like the "real thing". We don't want to keep what we have - we WANT some decent SRS.
Every tiny advancment is a good thing, but there's a general feeling in the room that phalloplasty (or modified methods such as this one) won't able to deliver a decent looking, functional penile solution for quite a few decades yet.