For a physically intimate relationship, there of course has to be a level of physical attraction. Personality can make a TEN a TWO or a TWO a TEN though.
As for qualities that Melissa and I share that draw us toward each other are also qualities that lend themselves to health, beauty and success. We have already been able to help each other with business issues that will have long term benefits for us both and we spend hours talking about and looking at business strategies that we can take advantage of to ensure our success in transition and in life. We both have a fear of being stuck in the middle , simply due to lack of resources. We are both the kind of people that once we decide on something, we put everything we have into it to make it happen and not rely on luck, generosity of others or anything else like that.
We both share a philosophy that, "The harder you work, the luckier you become". We don't sit around all day playing video games waiting for someone else to offer us a job or opportunity. We know transition will be very challenging so we see it as important to make sure there are opportunities in place that if need be, wont require direct contact with the public or community" unless we choose to do so.
Failure in transition IS NOT AN OPTION. It sucks, and it's not fair but the better and faster you can pass and the more attractive you can be with transition, the better people accept it. I hope I'm wrong with that but it's just my observation. If you have a different view, let's please discuss it. I never assume that my conclusions are 100% accurate.
