Quote from: Elspeth on January 18, 2013, 09:44:39 AM
She should also watch her back. If she finds him, my ex might run her down with her Subaru, in a desperate rage, seeking the same guy. 

Than I'm safe according to the standards x'D

I'm straight so I would date a MTF at any stage of transition. I would probably only see an FTM as a friend though.

Quote from: xXRebeccaXx on November 02, 2011, 06:54:57 PM
I know like 70% of tguys are straight...but if you're gay then...would you date another F2M

I identify as pansexual, so I'd totally date an MTF, or another FTM, as long as the chemistry was there.

I wouldn't date a mtf, I think. I'm gay, but have also always been attracted to androgyny. I have never ruled out the possibility that I might fall for a woman, it just wouldn't be a very feminine one.

As for dating a ftm.. I kinda feel that if I'm gonna be in a relationship with another guy, at least one of us should have a penis. But oh well. Not a deal breaker if I'm attracted to someone in the first place.

Quote from: John Smith on January 18, 2013, 03:23:33 PM
As for dating a ftm.. I kinda feel that if I'm gonna be in a relationship with another guy, at least one of us should have a penis. But oh well. Not a deal breaker if I'm attracted to someone in the first place.

I'm really tempted here to say something catty about my last (cis) boyfriend's penis. I really wish I had pics.

Quote from: Aaron Gabriel on January 17, 2013, 11:36:40 PM
Definitely.   I have no issue dating a MtF or FtM.  I just would like for them to be asexual and into cuddling and have a great personality.  I don't care what's in the pants or under the skirt.  It's pretty much about personality to me.

Aaron, the thing I like most about my girlfriend is her amazing sense of humor! Personality is really where it's at for me.

@Jared-- thanks for letting me know you understand my cryptic non-binary comment.


--Jay

I would , why not ? You date a person !
You date not to have sex ! But a interesting time .

Quote from: Elspeth on January 18, 2013, 09:44:39 AM
She should also watch her back. If she finds him, my ex might run her down with her Subaru, in a desperate rage, seeking the same guy. 

I think the thought would cross my mind also.

Hi Bosch and Aleon;

I am awfully sorry if I have offended you. Of course all FTM are Men, just as all MTF are Women. I identify as a woman and I accept that you both identify as Men. What I was trying to say was that like ourselves, I find the transmen have an amazing ability to bridge the gap so as to speak; knowing what its like to be a woman for their earlier life, but experiencing everything (emotionally, physically etc) of being a man. The few transmen that I have known over the years have been truly amazing people  and without the aggression and rudeness of some cis gendered males that I have known , or in my case suffered under.

Hugs

Quote from: judithlynn on January 21, 2013, 07:07:20 PM
Hi Bosch and Aleon;

I am awfully sorry if I have offended you. Of course all FTM are Men, just as all MTF are Women. I identify as a woman and I accept that you both identify as Men. What I was trying to say was that like ourselves, I find the transmen have an amazing ability to bridge the gap so as to speak; knowing what its like to be a woman for their earlier life, but experiencing everything (emotionally, physically etc) of being a man. The few transmen that I have known over the years have been truly amazing people  and without the aggression and rudeness of some cis gendered males that I have known , or in my case suffered under.

Hugs

I think we do know about both sides. For instance, I think more trans men would be feminists than cis men (yes, I mean feminist males of course.) I am definitely not, nor will I ever be, an aggressive male.

I believe being socialized as female, while socialization of females is sort of a heavy duty thing, also confers a few advantages, enabling some of us to be more social for instance.



--Jay

Quote from: Elspeth on January 18, 2013, 05:36:55 PM
I'm really tempted here to say something catty about my last (cis) boyfriend's penis. I really wish I had pics.

Ditto but for me it was the boyfriend before last. A sweet cisguy but sex was almost as if we were lesbians.

My girlfriend's actually MtF, so in a nutshell, yes. :]

I've dated more mtf then cis girls. So yes. (Also just now noticed which subforum this was posted in, why no, I'm not up too late and am very tired.)

I think this thread has run its course.

Locked.