I'm scheduled for SRS early next year and would appreciate hearing from my SRS sisters about losing their virginity. Exciting? Fun? Painful?

Thank you in advance for your honesty!

Haven't had SRS, only 19, but I would also like to know how it is!
I'm kinda wondering, I saw this post about a different idea for SRS using the glands in the cheeks to have a self lubricating neo vagina, anyone know if this is even possible yet?

I'd very much like to feel normal, I want a successful SRS!

It was definitely exciting. However, it was a little painful and slow-going at first. It took quite a few times before I felt completely comfortable. What I've come to find out is that foreplay is pretty important for me to get my body prepared. It's not only awesome itself, but it definitely makes penetration easier and more enjoyable and climax almost certain. When done properly, I can even go without lube at all.

i am still pre-op, getting SRS is January

I cant wait to lose my virginity as a woman..

Curious as well

Wondering if i will kiss and tell  . I am just starting to feel healed enough to maybe let my spouse in. 

So i am wondering myself.

Izzy

Painful,exciting,nervewracking and wonderful all at once.I was terrified but it was the most amazing experience ever,I waited 5 and half years since my op before trying it out.

Curious as well..I'm having GRS next year. 

I was 24 and 6 weeks post-op.

I was terribly naive and the first time was scary. I didn't know what was happening nor what to expect. I was shaking like a leaf and he noticed. I told him I was a virgin and he promised to be gentle. I left a little spot of blood on the sheets.

The second time was only a week later and I wasn't scared any more. I had my first orgasm the second time and all I can say is "Holy f'ing crap!" Then I understood what all the fuss was about. Fan-damn-tastic! Almost 40 years later and I still LOVE sex! 

Can't picture myself ever actually using it that way in my case. The wife won't have the parts of course, and I am not wired to want a man's either.

I'd be just as curious to know how many get the operation and then go on to live a life without needing it as a sex organ specifically for sex.

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on October 05, 2013, 12:12:46 AM
Can't picture myself ever actually using it that way in my case. The wife won't have the parts of course, and I am not wired to want a man's either.

I'd be just as curious to know how many get the operation and then go on to live a life without needing it as a sex organ specifically for sex.

Eh, I want it to feel right primarily, but when I do get it in due time I wouldn't mind having it for the same use it has for natal women, even if I can't physically reproduce (yet) it'd still be nice as I am a straight woman.

It really is different to each person, I'm just one of those people who feels like a die hard girl and want to live it to it's every degree.

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on October 05, 2013, 12:12:46 AM
Can't picture myself ever actually using it that way in my case. The wife won't have the parts of course, and I am not wired to want a man's either.

I'd be just as curious to know how many get the operation and then go on to live a life without needing it as a sex organ specifically for sex.

There always are strapons and other fun toys that she can use to blow your mind in a new way  ;-)

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on October 05, 2013, 12:12:46 AM
Can't picture myself ever actually using it that way in my case. The wife won't have the parts of course, and I am not wired to want a man's either.

I'd be just as curious to know how many get the operation and then go on to live a life without needing it as a sex organ specifically for sex.

You can get the option of having the open or closed version GRS(more the older SRS go for the closed). I know many who have had the closed version and they are happy due to the fact they never had to do the dilation schedule.

Izzy

Closed version?

Was not aware they came in differing forms

But my limited knowledge of the female anatomy leads me to wonder, what else does a transwoman need other than a clitoris . I mean, there's nothing for sperm to do in there, I won't be having babies.

Well I suppose if you are with a male, they will need some place to put it to have any fun

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on October 05, 2013, 11:30:49 AM
Closed version?

^^ This

Quote from: Akira21 ♡♡♡ on October 05, 2013, 01:01:42 PM
^^ This

It's literally the same thing without the "hole" so to speak.

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on October 05, 2013, 11:30:49 AMBut my limited knowledge of the female anatomy leads me to wonder, what else does a transwoman need other than a clitoris

Well over the years I have definitely developed a  G-spot and it is WAY more fun than a clit! 

I have no idea how it happened. It didn't show up until more than 20 years post-op and nobody ever told me that could happen but it is certainly NOT my imagination.

P.S. Clit + G-spot is WILD! 

Quote from: Northern Jane on October 05, 2013, 06:06:16 PM
Well over the years I have definitely developed a  G-spot and it is WAY more fun than a clit! 

I have no idea how it happened. It didn't show up until more than 20 years post-op and nobody ever told me that could happen but it is certainly NOT my imagination.

P.S. Clit + G-spot is WILD! 

Wondering if you have had your prostrate checked lately. Not to say anything wrong but it might be a little enlarged if you said it showed up 20 years after your SRS. Just saying something maybe to get checked.

Anyway my G spot (prostrate) is there but seems my hubby is the only one to find it. My finger is just not long enough. 

Izzy

You probably don't want my story, since my partner is female. But yes, they do make store-bought equipment for people who aren't born with a penis to use on someone who has a vagina. It was fun! Probably not the same experience as someone having sex with a person born with a penis, though; it's easier to have some control when the "sex organ" is a strapon, so I could ask her to go easy.

(I do self-lubricate, too.)

Lesley : Hey, it feels good, in a different way! Not that *you* would need to care, I'm not trying to pressure you, but I'm certainly glad I have both options. Still, I know for certain that at least Brassard does the "cosmetic" version, in which there is vulva and clitoris and all the aesthetic detailing but no actual vagina.

Quote from: Jenna Marie on October 05, 2013, 09:49:49 PM
Brassard does the "cosmetic" version, in which there is vulva and clitoris and all the aesthetic detailing but no actual vagina.

I have honestly never heard of a cosmetic version but one never knows.One would think that this kind of surgery would lead to the most regret later down the line.If they did find new ways of such surgeries,then the person is forced to carry this cosmetic version and may find no one to reconstruct it.Though i can understand not favoring the dilation process.But from what i understand,it gets easier over time and almost to the point its rarely needed.With such a choice,weighing the pros and cons are always the best way to go.As with any surgery.