Oh. Thank you for clarifying your point.

I and I'm sure there are others, usually see people differently than most. Somehow the surface doesn't even register.

I am 100 percent attracted to woman though this vary's alittle as so far I have only gotten the chance to date cis woman.also,I would not listen to people about anothers orientation.ask the person yourself and it prevents coming off as a..well as ignorant.orientation is different from anything else as it is the same as with non trans folks.or getting to know someone as a friend helps too.things do get shared between friends.personally I am attracted to cis woman only atm but like I said,that's only because I have only dated cis woman so far.but you can not control who you fall in love with and for me,idc what they look like or anything else,its auto attracted because of that love.for me anyway.my suggestion is,for the future-just shrug off what anyone else says and just ask.I mean you wouldn't want someone making assumptions about you based just on your gender.that's like saying 'hes a man so he's automaticly attracted to other guys' lol that's messed up.

I like guys, not a fan of the girly bits.

I'm kind of a whoever I fall in love with, that's who I fall in love with, regardless of gender or sex kind of guy. But if I had to label myself, I'd consider myself demisexual- I don't really feel any sort of sexual attraction to someone until I have a bond with them. It's made for awkward moments for sure, like realising after a year that I had a bad crush on my best friend. XD

Quote from: Nickrose20 on January 04, 2014, 03:38:52 AM
Meant if we only had souls.

If people didn't judge anyone by how they looked by their body. But by who they were. I wouldn't have any problem being who I am.

Having read this and your earlier post, I'd like to encourage you not to give up hope. First of all, the person who told you you had to go to the lesbian group is ridiculous...even if she saw you as female, you don't like girls! Lol. Can you imagine someone going to a lesbian group and being like "yeah, um, so I actually don't like girls all that much." Just think about how silly it is for her to say that. And there are lots of gay trans men! It's a little harder when you're pre-transition, I think (I'm not gay so it's all hearsay for me from other guys), but there are gay men who date trans men and see them for the men they are. I actually know a few in real life and they were really nice guys.

i'm not really sure of my orientation, and i've left deciding it for future. before i knew i was trans i recognized myself as bi, but my fantasies were solely centered around girls. so i've been considering myself straight, but i'm not so sure. the problem is i have hard time interpreting what i feel about guys. it's a combination of jealousy, urge to be like him, the fiendly attitude,the competitive feeling, comparing myself with him and probably some more feelings. and i haven't been able to recognize if there's an attraction in it, so the orientation is pending. anyway i'm happy sticking to ladies so i'm not really worried.

I'm asexual and that, I think, has kept some of the worse dysphoria at bay. I don't panic at the thought of the awkwardness of going to bed with someone because I simply have no interest in it. I think I'm panromantic though.

I'm straight, I love the ladies 

I've been reading these posts. I've gotten my self confused. I started out" Bi pre-opt transitioning transgender "female. I think it's just important to find love

I've only ever found myself to be sexually attracted to woman.

Personally I'm pansexual. I consider people based on their personalities, not their genders. That being said, I find myself predominantly interested in the androgynous to male end of the spectrum.

I consider myself to be queer. I sort of am attracted a bit to both and am not entirely rejecting of my non-boy parts, I guess.

--Jay

Personally, as an intellectual, I think sexuality is complicated.

I've started describing myself as a heteroflexible sapiosexual with pansexual/panromantic tendencies to those who insist on knowing how I jive though. :p

I have no idea. Complicating the matter is the fact that I have only been attracted to one person in the last four years, so I don't really have anything recent to go on. I know that I'm probably not asexual, but life experiences and having the wrong parts are a big turn off.

I'm sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to women, so... bisexual?

I don't really care, I'm just a trans guy who draws gay stuff in a heterosexual relationship.

i have no idea what the heck i am 

Quote from: geek on January 06, 2014, 12:21:19 PM
i have no idea what the heck i am 

Human?

I identify as bisexual.

Not really sure. I'm not sexually active, but I have romantic attraction depending on the individual. As far as sexual attraction..I'm not too keen on getting it on with people, I'm just an awkward (somewhat terrified) nugget. I guess from now on if anyone asks my sexuality I'll just say "chicken nugget" and leave the rest to them.
_{there's some other weird stuff but thats another story.}

Quote from: LordKAT on January 06, 2014, 02:55:01 PM
Human?

you know what i mean! :p