Quote from: geek on January 07, 2014, 12:29:42 AM
you know what i mean! :p

Ye, but I couldn't resist.

Quote from: LordKAT on January 07, 2014, 12:32:57 AM
Ye, but I couldn't resist.

Throws cat nip, behave! <flees>

No Thanks, you can keep the fleas.

lol

I'm bisexual, and I wouldn't have a problem with dating a FTM or MTF.

I'm quite open to anyone, and I don't care for labels or anything. But I'm mainly attracted to guys. I started realising something was up because of the thought that i couldnt date guys unless i was one

I partner with cis women, usually non lesbian identifying queer femmes who date male identifying stone butches and FTMs.  Coming from the non-lesbian butch/femme community, it has just fallen out this way.  I have also dated/partnered with straight women.  Both groups seem to "get me" just as well as the other and I could see myself with either long term.

My current partner will most likely be my last and she is a non-lesbian queer femme who dates male identifying stone butches and FTMs.

I have also been attracted to transwomen, but couldn't see myself being attracted to bio male genitalia, so I guess it would only be a post-op transwoman I could see myself being with (no offense to any pre-op women).

I have never found myself attracted to cis males or FTMs.

I'm gay and only date men.  I am attracted to male-identified people.  I used to think that any potential partner needed to be cis, that one of us needed a standard-issue penis.  However I've discovered that even cis-men in my age bracket don't always have a standard-issue penis that works as designed.  I have also met an amazing trans guy who I would date in a heartbeat and knowing him I don't really care what is in his pants, I'm attracted to him, and that part is suddenly irrelevant to me.  Who knows who I will end up with but not into women AT ALL (well, other than as friends!).


Jay

I know I already posted, but just want to say that I've been comfortable saying I'm bi lately (now that I can actually be attracted to people again) by which I mean pan, but pan reminds me of frying pans.

I was solely interested in women up until about 6 months into starting testosterone. Then things got weird and now I identify as pansexual because for some reason, I'm now attracted to men.
It's a strange thing to live 22 years of your life being attracted to only women and then out of nowhere one day you wake up and you're attracted to men as well. I'm still trying to work that out in my head.

I'm actually a demisexual (person who only develops or desires a sexual relationship after forming a close, emotional bond with someone) with pansexual interests. While I've never been necessarily attracted to ciswomen in a romantic or sexual way, I wouldn't discount the fact that I could be one day if I met a gal whose personality clicked with me (just hasn't happened yet). I'm currently married to a wonderful and supportive pansexual man who couldn't be happier to help me become the true me.

Also demisexual here. And also a pan/bisexual attraction, BUT strongly gravitating towards guys. Depends a bit each day... sometimes I have like really "gay" days, lol. While other days I feel like more attracted to women. But in the end I'd go with anyone who fits well with me character/personality wise, regardless of gender, looks, whether he/she is trans, etc.
But still have to find this person...

I identify as pansexual with a preference for masculinity. In the end it doesn't really matter what your sex or gender is to my attraction.

My sexual orientation is a big question mark. When talking to my friends I usually say I'm gay for simplicity's sake since I've only dated guys, but 'homoromantic' would probably be a better term to use since I've only ever experienced romantic attraction. I have very low sexual attraction to anyone, and at this point I'm not sure whether it's how I am naturally, the effects of dysphoria, or just a lack of confidence. I don't think I would rule out a relationship with a woman or GQ/agender/neutrois person if I were interested though.

Zambie, personally I thought I was asexual before I "discovered" I was trans. Just the mere thought of having sex like a woman was such a major turn-off I had no sex drive left.
And even now it's very low. But it's there. So I know I'm not asexual at least (tho demisexual is part of the asexual umbrella thing)
I also think I might be more attracted to guys cause when I imagine being with a girl, I just want a dick. Simple as that.

Personally, I'm bi/panromantic grayheterosexual. It sounds more complicated than it is, basically I can be romantically attracted to anyone, and I'm mainly sexually attracted to women (but graysexual, similar to asexual, means that I don't feel extreme sexual attraction or the need for sexual acts). However, I am attracted to FtMs and some other genderqueer people.

I think in terms of sexual attraction or the desire for sex with someone, it depends mostly on what the sex would be, so basically it would depend on their genitals, but I can still feel attracted to anyone regardless of what they have, who they are, or their gender.

I am open to anything hahahahaha... true story

I think its the person I will fall in love with their exterior doesnt matter to me its whats inside that will attract me to them..

rads xx

Quote from: radsi on January 28, 2014, 05:59:58 PM
I am open to anything hahahahaha... true story

I think its the person I will fall in love with their exterior doesnt matter to me its whats inside that will attract me to them..

rads xx

Yeah, I think there's a big difference, at least for me, between loving / feeling romantically attracted to someone and feeling sexually attracted to someone. Sure, there can be some overlap, but in the end I'm going to be in a relationship with someone who I love.

FtMs are as varied as cismen when it comes to sexuality and sexual practices.  Most of the transmen I know in person are straight and not interested in dating other men, even transmen.  I'm bisexual and prefer men(like my lovely boyfriend), though if I were single I'd consider cis or trans men and women.

I like chicks, so I consider myself a straight male

My gf only dated cis-guys before she met me, but she showed me that it doesn't matter the junk you have when you really love someone