Hello everyone,

This is the very confused person who has been posting as Tegan.

If you know me and have been following my reports for the past couple of days, then I am writing this message to you.

Thank you, from the bottom of my heart for being supportive, caring, and kind.

I'm going to take a little time off from Susan's because I need it.

Here's my current situation: my wife and I spoke quite a bit more when she got home today. We're trying hard to communicate and work through this. I have my therapist appointment on Monday, and I'll be taking these few days off from Susan's. I just have too many conflicting signals in my head right now, and I need some time to try to center myself. Thank you for being understanding.

I will check in next week after I've had a little time and after I've spoken to the therapist. I'm not trying to bury this, but I need professional help right now before anything else. I promise I will not hurt myself and that I will reach out if my thoughts go dark.

You've been so very good to me. Please know how much I appreciate that.

I'll check in soon-early next week.

Be well,
-T

PS. I'm doing this of my own volition. I love my wife, and she is not the bad guy. I truly regret if I ever painted her that way. She's hurting too. We're working through this together.

I think we all understand the need to unplug once in a while. You have a very good reason for concentrating on your relationship. Take care of yourself and don't forget us, OK? I will miss you and hope things can be resolved to the benefit of both of you.

Good luck with the therapist and I hope you two sort stuff out. These things take time, and sometimes time away is necessary. Best wishes and sending hugs your way.

Hope it all works out for you!

Best of luck with the therapist, T.W.O.
I hope the both of you can heal some.
I'm here for you, should either of you need a sounding board.

I know what it's like to feel like the compass needle is spinning. When you find your bearings, we'll be here for you.

Honey, best of luck.  I hope things turn out okay and that you find your place in everything.

Good luck hon,  take the time you need and best of luck to both of you.  Remember you have a lot of people who care about you here so you are never truly alone no matter how it feels sometimes.

Best of luck Tegan, I hope your therapy goes well and you and your wife can reach an understanding.

I hope things work out for the best, hugs.

Tegan

I wish you both all the very best.  The signs are very promising, you both care and you are clearly mindful.  Once the compass settles you will be better able to choose a path that works best for you

With love

Aisla