I knew from the start of my relationship with Bunny that they wore women's clothing and often felt feminine, this didn't bother me in the slightest since I'm gender fluid and think it is silly to gender fabric, we have now talked more on it and Bunny has decided to transition.
I use neutral pronouns when talking about them because they haven't expressed wanting to have feminine ones used yet or male ones not used and I thought it would be more respectful of them when talking to others. When the time comes that they want to make the switch to feminine ones I will gladly use them!
A little bit about us: Bunny is 25, bisexual, mtf, pre HRT but preparing for it! I'm 18, demisexual, dfab and gender fluid.
Right now Bunny and I are working on ways to help make them more comfortable with their feminine self. Physical things like helping them remove the body hair they dislike so much, looking at cute clothes online together, helping with styling wigs (thank you cosplay), me being more dominant with them sexually, and (we haven't done this yet since I am so much lighter than they are) helping them learn makeup. In addition to being open to anything they would want to express and share (in general or regarding the transition) and other things that just come with being open and supporting in your relationship. I really just want to help support them and for them to be happy no matter what they decide!
How else can I support them?
What ways would you want to be supported?
Anything else that helped you feel more feminine during your early transition?
