I have been given an offer and I don't know what to do. I am unemployed, broke, and homeless in California. I grew up in Upstate New York. I've had family offer me a bed and friends offer to buy a plane ticket back to New York. Everyone is aware of my transition, and has seen pictures of me, I have not ever been around any of them as as female.
I'm not sure what to do. Upstate NY isn't the most tolerant area in the world, but I would have a support network. California is more trans friendly, but I am alone, homeless, and living on the streets.
Should I go home?