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Do I Look, or Could I Pass, as Female? 3.0

Started by V M, April 18, 2014, 05:41:48 PM

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Shantel

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Cristyjade30

Quote from: amber roskamp on August 18, 2014, 05:37:22 PM
I haven't started hormones yet either but how do I look!

Girl you look good, I like how you already don't have a lot of muscle mass, I will be soooo happy if and when I get rid of my muscle mass.
I don't have experience with hrt buy it should do wonders from what I hear. See im skinny but I am bulky as hell. God I wish I was skinny in the muscle area. Looking forward to see your transition!
I feel like a butterfly emerging from her cacoon, I'm finally starting to live.
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Gabrielle_22

Quote from: trinityvause on August 18, 2014, 03:47:30 PM
Today was my first day as a junior in high school. Again, I haven't started hormone replacement therapy, yet.


You look great!  :) Just from the photos I've seen so far, you should have no trouble passing as far as appearance goes.
Quote from: sororcaeli on August 18, 2014, 02:32:33 PM
So, this just happened... :)



That's awesome! Those little things can mean so much. Coincidentally, I was told today that one of my social media photos looked like a girl's, but the person telling me meant it in a negative way. On the inside, I was overjoyed, but I had to try to brush it off. She actually ended up telling me I needed to grow a beard, or, by her logic, no girl could possibly be interested in me. The ironies of transitioning largely in secret.

Quote from: amber roskamp on August 18, 2014, 05:37:22 PM
I haven't started hormones yet either but how do I look!

I think you're well on your way, Amber! :) HRT will do wonders for you. You have a lot of potential because you have some really nice features to work with. Also, it's not essential, since many girls, myself included, haven't done much or anything to their eyebrows, but I think working on your eyebrows a little might help. Good luck!
"The time will come / when, with elation / you will greet yourself arriving / at your own door, in your own mirror / and each will smile at the other's welcome, / and say, sit here. Eat. / You will love again the stranger who was your self./ Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart / to itself, to the stranger who has loved you / all your life, whom you ignored" - Walcott, "Love after Love"
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amber roskamp

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on August 18, 2014, 07:44:21 PM
I think you're well on your way, Amber! :) HRT will do wonders for you. You have a lot of potential because you have some really nice features to work with. Also, it's not essential, since many girls, myself included, haven't done much or anything to their eyebrows, but I think working on your eyebrows a little might help. Good luck!

thnk you! yea I definitely agree that my eyebrows are could use some work.
Quote from: Cristyjade30 on August 18, 2014, 07:29:55 PM
Girl you look good, I like how you already don't have a lot of muscle mass, I will be soooo happy if and when I get rid of my muscle mass.
I don't have experience with hrt buy it should do wonders from what I hear. See im skinny but I am bulky as hell. God I wish I was skinny in the muscle area. Looking forward to see your transition!
I actually lost 30-35 pounds of muscle in the past two years. I was pretty buff in high school, I used to lift weights a lot for football. I was actually captain of my football team. how many girls can say that!! lol
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Illuminess

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on August 18, 2014, 07:44:21 PM
That's awesome! Those little things can mean so much. Coincidentally, I was told today that one of my social media photos looked like a girl's, but the person telling me meant it in a negative way. On the inside, I was overjoyed, but I had to try to brush it off. She actually ended up telling me I needed to grow a beard, or, by her logic, no girl could possibly be interested in me. The ironies of transitioning largely in secret.
The sucky part is "until I realized it was you." Like, geez.. thanks. :P Nah, she's my favourite roomie. As far as no girl being interested in us, that's just a big ol' load of doggie doodle.
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Shantel

Quote from: sororcaeli on August 18, 2014, 08:36:37 PM
The sucky part is "until I realized it was you." Like, geez.. thanks. :P Nah, she's my favourite roomie. As far as no girl being interested in us, that's just a big ol' load of doggie doodle.

I have all kinds of lady friends that like me so yeah, that's a load of puckie! And I get sired a lot and ma'am'ed occasionally, meh no big thing!
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Illuminess

So, I definitely need to do something about the brows. I know, the colour is all weird, but I often make my pics like that when they've been taken with a phone cam...in less than ideal lighting.

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Allyda

Quote from: Zoe Snow on August 16, 2014, 10:41:47 PM
Just started living full time.  How do I look?


You look good Zoe but i'm leaning toward Andro because of your pants and shoes. Change those out for something more feminine and I think you'll look great!

Ali :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
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Cristyjade30

Quote from: amber roskamp on August 18, 2014, 08:00:40 PM
thnk you! yea I definitely agree that my eyebrows are could use some work.I actually lost 30-35 pounds of muscle in the past two years. I was pretty buff in high school, I used to lift weights a lot for football. I was actually captain of my football team. how many girls can say that!! lol

Yeah I was a team captain also, I was fullback and punt return. Then I was a team leader in he army... I have a lot of frickin muscle...
I am thin framed, It just don't look it right now bc of all the muscle. I haven't worked out in years but ugh still stuck with it. What you do to get rid of yours. hear is a pic I do not like but Ill post.


when ever I look side ways it makes my face look so much bigger than what it is, Also I don't go in public at all Id get clocked so fast. My therapist said that most of my muscle mass shoulg go away with hrt, then hopefully I can pull off tattood chick...
I feel like a butterfly emerging from her cacoon, I'm finally starting to live.
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Lara the Lover and the Fighter

Quote from: Cristyjade30 on August 19, 2014, 01:02:02 AM
Yeah I was a team captain also, I was fullback and punt return. Then I was a team leader in he army... I have a lot of frickin muscle...
I am thin framed, It just don't look it right now bc of all the muscle. I haven't worked out in years but ugh still stuck with it. What you do to get rid of yours. hear is a pic I do not like but Ill post.


when ever I look side ways it makes my face look so much bigger than what it is, Also I don't go in public at all Id get clocked so fast. My therapist said that most of my muscle mass shoulg go away with hrt, then hopefully I can pull off tattood chick...

I'm battling with muscle too.  A change in diet and HRT will help loads!  I am at 8 months on HRT and I have been told that I look like a female triathlete and I started off with similar muscle as you.

I still wonder if I'll ever look more like a dainty flower than a triathlete.  Its weird.  A lot of the muscle is there but its so squishy. lol


You have a feminine face so that should help loads with the transition.
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Gabrielle_22

Quote from: sororcaeli on August 18, 2014, 09:42:00 PM
So, I definitely need to do something about the brows. I know, the colour is all weird, but I often make my pics like that when they've been taken with a phone cam...in less than ideal lighting.



You have great soft features! A picture like this would probably also get comments that someone thought you were a girl at first glance, sort of like your last one. Are you growing out your hair?
"The time will come / when, with elation / you will greet yourself arriving / at your own door, in your own mirror / and each will smile at the other's welcome, / and say, sit here. Eat. / You will love again the stranger who was your self./ Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart / to itself, to the stranger who has loved you / all your life, whom you ignored" - Walcott, "Love after Love"
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Cristyjade30

Quote from: Lara the Lover and the Fighter on August 19, 2014, 09:37:40 AM
I'm battling with muscle too.  A change in diet and HRT will help loads!  I am at 8 months on HRT and I have been told that I look like a female triathlete and I started off with similar muscle as you.

I still wonder if I'll ever look more like a dainty flower than a triathlete.  Its weird.  A lot of the muscle is there but its so squishy. lol


You have a feminine face so that should help loads with the transition.

Thanks sweetheart! I been on a diet for about two months. I was 265, I am now 235. I cut red meat, salt fat and bread. I eat vegatables that aren't starchy, I do drink v8 fusion and water, oh and green tea. I eat fish or chicken grilled on my foreman grill, or I eat at subway, chopped salad, I have my own 0 fat dressing. or a turkey sub on whole wheat no mayo or oil and vineagear, just turkey lettuce spinach, tomatoes pickles. I cant wait to get on hrt and get rid of the rest of my muscle.
I feel like a butterfly emerging from her cacoon, I'm finally starting to live.
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Illuminess

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on August 19, 2014, 10:43:05 AM
You have great soft features! A picture like this would probably also get comments that someone thought you were a girl at first glance, sort of like your last one. Are you growing out your hair?
Thanks, and yep. Rocking the beanie until it's long enough to hide my hairline.
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"Despair holds a sweetness that only an artist's tongue can taste."Illuminess
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Hikari

Quote from: sororcaeli on August 18, 2014, 09:42:00 PM
So, I definitely need to do something about the brows. I know, the colour is all weird, but I often make my pics like that when they've been taken with a phone cam...in less than ideal lighting.




Every once in a while I will get my brows done professionally and then just maintain it. Brows aren't expensive just make sure the person knows you want feminine brows. No one ever questioned me when I asked for that. I think I paid $12 plus a $3 tip last time.
私は女の子 です!My Blog - Hikari's Transition Log http://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,377.0.html
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JohannaJohn

Quote from: Hikari on August 19, 2014, 01:04:40 PM

Every once in a while I will get my brows done professionally and then just maintain it. Brows aren't expensive just make sure the person knows you want feminine brows. No one ever questioned me when I asked for that. I think I paid $12 plus a $3 tip last time.

Hikari, What a fantastic idea.  I will probably start doing is about a month, which will be the 3 month mark for me, when my boobies are just a bit bigger and my growing brown hair just a little longer...

Johanna.
I am female.
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Illuminess

Quote from: Hikari on August 19, 2014, 01:04:40 PM

Every once in a while I will get my brows done professionally and then just maintain it. Brows aren't expensive just make sure the person knows you want feminine brows. No one ever questioned me when I asked for that. I think I paid $12 plus a $3 tip last time.
Yeah, my mom said we could go together, so I'm just waiting for the word.
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"Despair holds a sweetness that only an artist's tongue can taste."Illuminess
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Illuminess

The only thing about that pic is that I'm not a super smiley/bubbley person on a regular basis, so it's kind of deceptive.

Here's me without the weird editing, not trying to look a certain way, somewhere around the beginning of my self-revelation. My face looks unusually red here, though. I blame Photo Booth. That was taken in my flat in Toledo, Oregon. Yes, I'm wearing the same shirt. I have two of those shirts, and I wear them far too much.

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"Despair holds a sweetness that only an artist's tongue can taste."Illuminess
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trinityvause

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on August 18, 2014, 07:44:21 PM
You look great!  :) Just from the photos I've seen so far, you should have no trouble passing as far as appearance goes.
Thank you! :)
The truth will enlighten you, belief will enslave you.
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amber roskamp

Quote from: Cristyjade30 on August 19, 2014, 01:02:02 AM
Yeah I was a team captain also, I was fullback and punt return. Then I was a team leader in he army... I have a lot of frickin muscle...
I am thin framed, It just don't look it right now bc of all the muscle. I haven't worked out in years but ugh still stuck with it. What you do to get rid of yours. hear is a pic I do not like but Ill post.


when ever I look side ways it makes my face look so much bigger than what it is, Also I don't go in public at all Id get clocked so fast. My therapist said that most of my muscle mass shoulg go away with hrt, then hopefully I can pull off tattood chick...
I think weighing as much as I did was really unnatural for me. As soon as I stopped lifting and trying to put on weight I just lost it all. I have a really high metabolism and I really don't eat that much so I just lost the way without really trying to.

btw I was a tight end, until I became a wide receiver lol ;). I also played outside line backer but I cant really make that sound sexual.
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Brenda E

Quote from: Cristyjade30 on August 19, 2014, 10:59:34 AM
Thanks sweetheart! I been on a diet for about two months. I was 265, I am now 235. I cut red meat, salt fat and bread. I eat vegatables that aren't starchy, I do drink v8 fusion and water, oh and green tea. I eat fish or chicken grilled on my foreman grill, or I eat at subway, chopped salad, I have my own 0 fat dressing. or a turkey sub on whole wheat no mayo or oil and vineagear, just turkey lettuce spinach, tomatoes pickles. I cant wait to get on hrt and get rid of the rest of my muscle.

HRT is the key, as is cutting protein, cardio cardio cardio, and sucking up the absolute misery of eating 1200 calories a day.  Did I forget to mention cardio?

Worse than electrolysis.

Going vegetarian is the fastest way I've found to lose muscle quickly, but it's truly unpleasant

Don't go crazy though.  Being in shape is far more attractive (to me) than being unheathily skeletal.  There are plenty of bigger girls out there who are stunning, and plenty of waifs who look like crack addicts.
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