So what's everyone doing this weekend with their SO?

My girl and I are going to go out together for the first time!!! I am letting the planning all up to her but she's excited and texted saying she was going shopping to get some new heels and toys.....

Me I don't care.....I could be on the couch watching movie eating pizza, on Playstation 3 kicking butt in Diablo,  or out and about having fun. Just as long as I am with her!

Have a great weekend everyone

Have fun.


I'll be working as usual and maybe I'll get a chance to mow the yard if it doesn't keep raining...

Well we didn't go out like I had hoped. We did however go to the grocery store, Menards, Steak N Shake, and a tobacco store yesterday lol. It was nice being out in public with her.....I acted normal. She was definitely self conscious. Didn't hold hands or kiss or anything but just being in public was nice. First time out and it was nice, least for me.

My kids and my brother in law and his girlfriend met her for the first time too. We all live together but she has always dressed as a he. Went as great as we could have imagined.

Now I sit here waiting for 5 to come so I can see her and start our evening plans. We ended up watching football most the night yesterday tonight Play Station 3 when house is quiet

Happier than I ever have been. Tomorrow she meets my bestfriend and her family for a bbq at our house. She posted on facebook :

this morning i woke up with a sense of well being i havent had in a long time... im blessed to have my new found friends and family ..not to take away from those whom i already hold dear to me but to add to that list of those that i love , admire , and respect.

I love her.... theres no words to express how much I do. She's my bestfriend, my everything. It's scary in away cause if I lose her I would break (lost my husband almost 2 years ago from a heartattack). But its also not scary cause I trust her completely.

So anyway.....just wanted to give my update.....was kinda sad not to see many responses from people. I had hoped you all would blow up my email with all the great things you and your SO were planning on doing....maybe this next weekend

Best wishes to everyone. Thanks for letting me rant.

I so hope things continue to go well for you and your relationship blossoms fully! It is so nice that you support your SO and I know it means the world. Just continue to trust and support your SO and relax and enjoy your time together. 

I don't have anything going on until next month when all my old Paramedic friends are having a BBQ. I have been told I will be the one honored for courage in dealing with all I have the past year. It will be so nice to see some I have lost contact with over the years. I was worried some would decline to attend because of me, but so far no one has done that and seem genuinely happy for me. I will post a post party report for all. 

Thank you Jessica! Yes I do support her. The whole thing was a shock to me because I had no clue what she really felt inside until several months in but I understand why she did. She is not use to being supported. She has a friend who is a MTF as well that she has turned too. She actually helped her find herself and comfront emotions that she had withheld inside herself since she was 12. So thats nice. She also has a handful of friends who stuck with her the last few years and didn't run when she told them. But not someone that is there for her daily, weekly, or monthly really...just here and there not because they don't care but I am sure its just everyone is so busy. So for me to be there for her everyday is something new and she is enjoying it. I am just treating it as a normal relationship cause thats what it is.

So excited for you about your BBQ. And to be the one they honor! That's fantastic. I don't know your story but you must be a sweetie from your response to my post. Wish you the best. Can't wait to see some pictures.....btw your picture looks on here looks fabulous 

Hope you had a great weekend Jamie.....even if it was just mowing the grass!!!!

Quote from: StraightInLoveMTF on September 08, 2014, 04:02:49 PM
btw your picture looks on here looks fabulous 

Thank you very much!!  That made my night.