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first experience with a drunk middle aged man who tried to hit on me

Started by stephaniec, September 05, 2014, 04:32:28 PM

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stephaniec

wow, what women have to deal with.  sitting by my self in front of a down town  suburban  restaurant at midnight yesterday, a drunken Neanderthal first asked for a  cigarette  ( I don't smoke) then said " you look like a lady what's your name as he was coming towards me. I let him know how I felt  . Has any else come across  the middle aged drunk with the pick up line " you look like a lady ".
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mrs izzy

Quote from: stephaniec on September 05, 2014, 04:32:28 PM
wow, what women have to deal with.  sitting by my self in front of a down town  suburban  restaurant at midnight yesterday, a drunken Neanderthal first asked for a  cigarette  ( I don't smoke) then said " you look like a lady what's your name as he was coming towards me. I let him know how I felt  . Has any else come across  the middle aged drunk with the pick up line " you look like a lady ".

No not drunk but had my times of having to fend off advances.

I was already dating or married so it was flattering but still made me uncomfortable, oh and some where how can i say this but take home material. 

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stephaniec

this wasn't take home material, it was  nice to be seen as a lady.
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Ms Grace

Being a woman by yourself in a public space is seen by some guys, drunk or not, as an invitation to hit on you.
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stephaniec

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 05, 2014, 07:28:12 PM
Being a woman by yourself in a public space is seen by some guys, drunk or not, as an invitation to hit on you.
it was quite freaky I wasn't sure what was going to happen
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