Hrm. Your kind of in a pickle doll...
Ok, consider this one...
Write out (or print out, same difference) what you feel and why you feel... everything (relative to being TG that is.). Be sure to point out that it isn't a choice but rather simply it is what you are. Point out that the condition is known, is treatable and is not a bad thing, but that it does need to be treated. If you try to ignore it/suppress it or anything but face it down and accept it that it hurts and is detrimental. Wishing it away does not work... does not help. Etc.
Tailor the above thoughts to match your situation and thoughts of course.Then save this in a safe location and give it to them should they ever discover you before you are ready to tell them.
It would probably be a good idea to have other relevant information handy as well.
Quote from: tammygirluk on January 23, 2006, 05:06:20 PM...
I want a sex change but i dont think i could do it becuase i think it would upset my parents and i think they would be upset too becuase they wouldnt have any grandkids.
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I understand, but be so very careful. Look at both sides before you commit to anything. ... Trying to be a husband when you are a girl... well, sometimes you have to live for
yourself. A variation of a saying I like is fitting, "Your life, not theirs."
It is also worth remembering that although they would almost certainly love to have grandkids they almost certainly want their child to be happy.P.s. I am happy to talk with parents or anyone else if that is deemed useful by the way.