I suppose it's time for an update on my situation with my wife. One year ago, she swore divorce. The insults were terrible and cutting – abusive applies. But I love her and I understand where she is coming from, she married what she thought was a man. We loved, we shared, we worked together, cried together and danced together. But I wasn't the man she married.
Over the next few months, there were fights and tears. She left three times. Lawyers were called and proceedings started. Then, she began to accept, just a little. Less abuse and more questions. We talked...I like women. She didn't understand as women like men. Her emotions went cyclic, one day there was some support and another day she would lash out. There was fear as she watched her husband leave each day as I became more Jennifer. She also saw my struggles and my successes. She finally figured out that I really didn't have a choice.
Over time she came to learn that I have a "core" that did not change. I am the same in many ways to the person she married. I look very different but the core remains. We started talking even more. She said "I'm sorry". During the fights, I could get less than nice. I said "I'm sorry". We forgave each other. We still struggle at times.
Yesterday, I got these at work. She delivered them to the front desk. I'm keeping the shoe forever.
There is still a lot of work to do. But, it's getting better. Thought I would share something good....
Hugs,
Jennifer
