Nichole, you brought up a very good point with the HGH. I recall a few other testimonials, that the people who've had the best feminising effects from hormones, even later in life, were those who went to the gym. working out, specifically total body max efforts(powerlifting, heavy leg work, compound lift maxouts, etc), have been shown to increase testosterone and HUMAN GROWTH HORMONE. Testosterone isn't a big deal when on an anti androgen, in fact I've never known anyone except cyclists who cycle for hours each day lose their boobs or whatever. But I have seen some female powerlifters who got a big bigger in the chest area, and they were OLY lifters so it wasn't chest muscle(the clean & press and the jerk don't use the pectoralis major). So maybe, just maybe, that's that secret to getting hips and distance between legs some people talk about!
A lot of people seem to go by injectables. The human body naturally has spikes in hormonal levels, I suppose it only makes sense that those people who are on injected and have spikes too benefit.
All in all, we really need to know more. Like you said Nichole, this is in no way for people to substitute for professional medical advice in any way at all. It's just something for a bunch of people who've, "been there done that" to talk about it, ya know?