So I had dinner with one of my dearest girlfriends tonight and we had the normal conversations about family and the holidays, then we started talking about how we were both looking forward to 2017. It was at this point that I opened up to her about some of the surgeries I have planned for this coming year. Now, I am a very private person, and do not ever talk about my past with anyone who did not know me before or during transition. I do not want to presume that people do not know I am trans, but I just kind of live my life and it is not normally something that comes up. But I really wanted to share with someone close to me how excited I am about my upcoming VFS in February. It is tough sometimes when you try to just be a girl but you want to share something important with someone who may not fully understand what it feels like to be trans.
Well as we spoke I told her about everything and how a mutual friend of ours is going with me to Seoul. And she was so thrilled and excited for me, that I started crying tears of joy. I must have looked like a wreck in the restaurant, but I really didn't care. I was so happy to share something this important with one of my dearest friends. Her love and support blew me away. I was so happy to share some of my life with her.
This truly made me a very happy girl today.