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Just came out to mom

Started by Zquence, December 18, 2017, 05:35:14 AM

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Zquence

Just sent this to my mom would of rather done it in person but I don't know when ill see her again I can't wait until she wakes up so nervous.

"Hey mom, umm I guess I have news.
How should I put this, would rather do it in person but don't know when that'll be... So anyways you remember back in highschool and stuff... I use to say stuff all the time alot bull->-bleeped-<-, alot not, but anyways one of the things I said was rather been born a girl... Well yeah I guess it is time to come out the closet, I am trans.
I love you mom."

Looks like im on fire when it comes to coming out. How long till it burns me, and who, and will I even care?

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Bari Jo

Yup, you are on fire!  I'm amazed how differently everybodys coming outs and letters are.  I think the important thing is be you throughout it all.  If I sent a letter like yours there's no way my family would accept it as it doesn't ring as me.  My family would think I was under duress or something.  I am long winded, analytical about everything.  They would expect me to have a debate with myself in my letters and I did.

Kudos to you for keeping your personalality in yours.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Megan.

God luck, hope it goes well. X

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Zquence

So far so good, loll we are talking, she doesn't really know what to say besides that she supports me, but I know my mom would love and accept me even if I became the next Hitler.

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Megan.

Let's hope the 'Hitler thing' doesn't happen! Otherwise, I'm very happy for you. X

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Zquence

Quote from: Megan. on December 18, 2017, 08:57:47 AM
Let's hope the 'Hitler thing' doesn't happen! Otherwise, I'm very happy for you. X

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I don't think it will I lost my drive for world domination.

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KathyLauren

2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Charlie Nicki

Quote from: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 09:12:10 AM
I don't think it will I lost my drive for world domination.

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LOL! Congrats for your mom's support.
Latina :) I speak Spanish, English and a bit of Portuguese.
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Roll

Congrats on your mom's support!!

And maybe you could just aim lower and settle for a single country rather than world domination. More of a Peron style thing.
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Zquence

Quote from: Roll on December 18, 2017, 10:11:34 AM
Congrats on your mom's support!!

And maybe you could just aim lower and settle for a single country rather than world domination. More of a Peron style thing.
You make me laugh girl

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Zquence

Hahahaha

So I've just come out to my old friends back in Texas,
Light all the matches
I might be going crazy, coming out to fast, ima burn at somepoint I know but for now I am riding the high of coming out.

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