What like in a guy is muscles, dreamy eyes and taller than me.  I like gals that are cute and sassy.

Quote from: Julia1996 on January 17, 2018, 08:00:18 PM
This is what I like.

OMG! Is that Tristan??

I'll hate myself for answering this but I have to lol.. lately I've been noticing the energy masculine men give off a lot more. I feel like I'm being seduced and it's against my morals but I kinda like it lol
Older guys, and I mean like 20 or 30 years older, are very polite and nice

I feel like estrogen is just crazy!

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Right now my new lover does it perfectly for me.

She's intelligent, always high on my list, fit enough for scissoring to work well is a big plus.

Kisses well and likes to. Femme isn't a requirement but it certainly gets me going and I'm really only interested in men who have a prominent feminine side. I like long hair better than short, enough to take a handful.

Strong enough to be vulnerable, she opened up to me in the first minute we met. Not squeamish. Can take control or accept being lovingly controlled.

She's got some health issues, gets my protective side going right off.

Clearly a bit emotionally edgy, there's depth there and I don't see drama however I'm not afraid to engage someone with issues. God knows I have mine. The ability to engage when you know you're imperfect and go ahead anyway goes back to that vulnerability thing as well as shouts bravery. That really is dead sexy to me.

I suppose I could condense  all that a bit.

Brave enough for Gryffindor, smart enough for ravenclaw, loyal enough for Hufflepuff. Canny enough for Slytherin isn't a bad addition to that ;-)

Inteligent and funny above all else. Someone who can see me for what i am. Physically doesnt matter too much as long as in ok shape

I guess I don't very easily get attracted to anyone sexually. I'm also a bit slow to realize someone likes me in that fashion.

Where men are concerned I must confess I do feel a bit woozy when someone taller, stronger, older and wiser than me gives me a hug. Especially if he is lean.

As for girls, I guess I like anyone who is confident and open, does something creative passionately and is good at it.

Quote from: Roll on January 17, 2018, 10:18:19 PM
What's wrong with this hottie?

I can't help but think of Blazing Saddles


"Talk frontier gibberish to me darling"

It's interesting to see what transitioning does to us. When I lived as a gay man I didn't really have a type (when it comes to physical appearance) but now I definitely want a guy who is taller than me, who is muscular or thick and strong and manly. Beard is a huge plus as well. I want a guy who is super masculine and can make me feel feminine.

In everyone I am attracted to healthy, natural bodies (no fake lips or tits, no mutilations). Tats/piercings are mostly icky. Minimal body hair, long scalp hair. Well groomed. Honest.
Girls I like to be confident, able to think for themselves, dominate without being bossy.
Guys I like to be somewhat fem, soft, round, submissive without being sissy.

Male or Female the main thing I look for is honesty. It's a big contributor to my 35 year marriage. I came from a broken marriage where I was lied to. My second wife has NEVER lied to me.

Never had a specific set of requirements, I'm not prejudiced, other than they better not be: a) insane b) a violent drunk or c) an incurable and excessive pessimist.

And d) I suppose they'll need to be able to handle my personality. If they like one-upmanship, it's going to be fiery hell.

I couldn't tell you what "look" I prefer in people. They're all different. There's always something new you've never seen before. Like hair color or height or whatever, that's just skin deep stuff and I am only interested in someone I'd want to commit to. They better have more than that going for them if you're gonna spend a lot of time with.

Quote from: Julia1996 on January 17, 2018, 08:00:18 PM
This is what I like.

This is a perfect example of what I don't find attractive, but again, it's just my apreciation. On the other hand, I could trust SadieBlake to pick a lover for me

My type of man

Quote from: Christy Lee on January 18, 2018, 04:41:18 PM
My type of man

Superboy?

Quote from: Cali on January 18, 2018, 04:44:15 PM
Superboy?

The 2nd is Tom Welling from Smallville yes, the 1st one is Damon Salvatore (Ian Somerhalder) from TVD

Quote from: Christy Lee on January 18, 2018, 04:41:18 PM
My type of man

The first one looks anorexic.  The second one is hot though.

Well he was playing a Vampire at the time

For me for personality  I like  the personality  of  Paul walker's  character in fast and the furious  that is the personality traits I like plus his looks

I am not interested in men.

For women, i am not picky about physical attributes.  They must have kind eyes.  The personality is what matters to me.  They have to be kind to both humans and animals and honest.  They have to have integrity and strength of character.

Kind of like my wife. 

Quote from: KathyLauren on January 18, 2018, 07:48:47 PM
I am not interested in men.

For women, i am not picky about physical attributes.  They must have kind eyes.  The personality is what matters to me.  They have to be kind to both humans and animals and honest.  They have to have integrity and strength of character.

Kind of like my wife. 

I'm glad you wrote this.  I was beginning to think I was a fish outta water here.