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What's your sexuality?

Started by ladytiffielou, February 22, 2018, 01:56:11 AM

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ladytiffielou

Goodness gracious there's a whole bunch of replies. Loving y'all LGBTQ folk and thank you for sharing!

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Danielle834

I adore genetic men and women and trans women.  So Pansexual maybe?

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pamelatransuk

Yes Ladytiffielou, such a wide and diverse variation which is good.

Maybe next time someone puts up this subject in a thread, it could be headed by a "Poll" but if so, the polling period would have to be at least 2 weeks. Just a thought for the future.

Thank you for initiating such an interesting discussion.

Pamela



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CincySixx

Quote from: pamelatransuk on March 07, 2018, 07:40:03 AM
Yes Ladytiffielou, such a wide and diverse variation which is good.

Maybe next time someone puts up this subject in a thread, it could be headed by a "Poll" but if so, the polling period would have to be at least 2 weeks. Just a thought for the future.

Thank you for initiating such an interesting discussion.

Pamela

That sounds amazing <3

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ladytiffielou

Quote from: pamelatransuk on March 07, 2018, 07:40:03 AM
Yes Ladytiffielou, such a wide and diverse variation which is good.

Maybe next time someone puts up this subject in a thread, it could be headed by a "Poll" but if so, the polling period would have to be at least 2 weeks. Just a thought for the future.

Thank you for initiating such an interesting discussion.

Pamela
Hey Pamela, mind if I use your name in short for the poll idea?

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Sonja

Quote from: Lyric on March 01, 2018, 11:39:44 AM
After years of observation and consideration of such things, I've come to decide that the usual labels of "straight", "gay" or "bisexual" are inadequate to describe sexuality. Consider, for instance, the "straight" male who finds himself attracted to an attractive transgender person who happens to have a penis. Does this mean he is in fact "bi". No. He is attracted to femininity, just as he always has been. The bodily plumbing matters are basically details to be worked out.

I believe people are usually attracted more to masculinity or femininity, though sometimes to both equally. Of course, to have a physical relationship with someone is another matter, and there are many possibilities there. I am pretty entirely attracted to femininity and detracted from masculinity, though the actual details of bodily gender differences are not that big a deal for me. I love breasts and vaginas, but I can appreciate the penis as well.
Lyric - hope you don't mind me borrowing but The above is exactly true for me, to the letter.
Sonja.
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amandam

I know I've responded here before. But, sometimes, I just want someone to hold me and kiss me like I'm a girl. I just feel like one inside and sexually. If that makes sense.
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Chelsea

Quote from: Lyric on March 01, 2018, 11:39:44 AM
After years of observation and consideration of such things, I've come to decide that the usual labels of "straight", "gay" or "bisexual" are inadequate to describe sexuality. Consider, for instance, the "straight" male who finds himself attracted to an attractive transgender person who happens to have a penis. Does this mean he is in fact "bi". No. He is attracted to femininity, just as he always has been. The bodily plumbing matters are basically details to be worked out.

I believe people are usually attracted more to masculinity or femininity, though sometimes to both equally. Of course, to have a physical relationship with someone is another matter, and there are many possibilities there. I am pretty entirely attracted to femininity and detracted from masculinity, though the actual details of bodily gender differences are not that big a deal for me. I love breasts and vaginas, but I can appreciate the penis as well.

This describes me exactly. I never knew really how to put it into words so Thank you. lol

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Jenniferangelina

Very fluid I am attracted more to the person some males I find attractive some females I find attractive. But mostly I'm attracted to guys.
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Jenny94

I think I have a not-too-uncommon trans condition, which is that I'm male-to-something, primarily attracted to men, but knowing underneath that I also want to be with women. At the moment, I see women as people to aim to be like, people I want to be friends with. But I know that there's something there. I just can't bear the thought of waking up next to a woman and the contrast between our bodies. If anyone's seen "herstory", I guess I'm a bit like Vi in this respect (and as an example, Jen Richards is both a transition goal and a girl crush).
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SassyCassie

I wan't sure at first, but I think I'm leaning toward being just a plain vanilla straight woman.

I'm finding I have a physical attraction to guys but as far as a romantic one, I'm not sure. Back when I was basically pretending to be a guy, I had plenty of opportunities to see males at their worst. How to reconcile that in relation to some kind of amorous relationship, well I haven't quite worked that out yet.

I guess I never really was all that physically attracted to women, in spite of the fact that I was married to one.
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Allison S

I haven't responded yet?!
Anyhow. I like men. Right now I have my eye on one of my roommates.. if he doesn't already have a gf. There's a bit of a cultural barrier because he's Chinese so I'm not sure if it could work long term.. I wonder what he thinks about me

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Michelle_P

Sexuality?  I'm a 64 year old woman, strongly attracted to femme presentations, so that would make me a lesbian, a female homosexual.

In practice not all persons with femme presentation necessarily self-identify as women, even though I find them attractive, which would make my attraction to them technically queer.

So, my sexuality would be lesbian/queer.    ;D
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Megan.

I'm pansexual, I love who I love. Masc' or femme, It's someone's mind that really does it for me. Confidence and independence are two very attractive traits.
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Minestrone

I am only attracted to women, so I guess a lesbian. However,  I suppose I wouldn't mind bedding a pretty boy, or maybe not. I don't know, when I think of a pretty boy my mind shows me an image of an attractive male anime character, such as Sebastian from black butler. Those standards are pretty high, so I guess only women then.
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pamelatransuk

Quote from: ladytiffielou on March 10, 2018, 08:10:26 PM
Hey Pamela, mind if I use your name in short for the poll idea?

By all means Ladytiffielou, of course you can.

Obviously most will know and this thread proves that Physical/Romantic Attraction and Sexuality are not necessarily intertwined and some are attracted by personality or character or other traits. However this your thread is headed "Sexuality" and therefore I think any Poll should also refer to sexuality to maintain consistency. I would suggest 7 categories but you may prefer fewer or more:

Straight:       attracted to opposite sex to that to which you assign (internally whether transitioned or not)
Gay/Lesbian: attracted to same sex to that to which you assign (internally whether transitioned or not)
Bisexual:       may be attracted to either sex
Asexual:        have no sexual interest at this time
Queer
Pansexual
Other

Hope this helps if you decide on a poll.

May I thank you for initiating such an interesting thread and a stimulating debate.

Pamela



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ladytiffielou

Aww yes, thank you Pamela for the helping me with the example! Much love everyone.

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vic

It's really problematic for me. I'm in a relationship with a woman, but I hadn't had sex with her since two years now? Something like that. I hate my body so I can't even think about any kind of intimacy before my transition (and I haven't even started taking testosterone yet). But I always liked guys. I ended up in a relationship with a woman because I couldn't imagine myself in a relationship with a guy in the situation when I'm still in female body. Does that even make any sense? But now I'm pretty sure that I'm attracted to guys, but I don't know if I want to have a sexual relationship even after the transition.
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somme_girl

very much straight. i like some good dick
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Lyric

Quote from: Sonja on March 10, 2018, 08:25:26 PM
Lyric - hope you don't mind me borrowing but The above is exactly true for me, to the letter.
Sonja.

Absolutely. I think we have the beginning of a movement here. BTW, every time I see your avatar pic I think to myself that that lady has such a great face.
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