See I just don't really see stereotpical male/female behaviour. Because their are always people who are the exception to the rule and these people are increasing in number as the years go by and I am not talking transgender people by any means.
I am talking the woman who wears pants to work instead of a skirt, the man who stays home to take care of the kids, female fighter pilots, male nurses all these things at one time have been considered stereotypical female or male things to do and now nearly everywhere you look you have people smashing these stereotypes, people who would not by any means ever describe themselves as transgender.
People are individuals, society constructs and defines behaviour labels in to catergories of male/female and sometimes neutral, what society doesn't define is thoughts, feelings, emotions and our innate nature to be and express who we are in context of ourselves AND the outside world.
So yes while to a transgender person presenting as the gender they identify with is usually important as we do like it or not live in a society where people perceive you according to how you choose to express yourself which is not neccessarily always a negative thing, (life could be very drab indeed without forms of expression), to a transgender person this is not what makes us male or female.
What makes us innately male or female is the simple, quiet knowledge inside that we are just what we are. A man or a woman for those who identify with one gender.
Or something else for those either between genders or who do not identify with gender as a concept at all.
So I can't recognize your constructs of behaviour because instinctively I reject labelling behaviour into male/ female.
But if you are talking dress if I woke up tomorrow and the man I feel I am was expected to wear skirts, make up and say for example well I feel that naturally I am not drawn to that so think I would struggle to feel comfortable with that.
However, one caeveat. IF society perceived me to be a woman because of the way I presented then I concede I may have a problem with that. That's why presentation, even surgery is not always the bee all an end all. It is a neccessary tool to aid some, most even but not always all.
It's the knowing that counts far more, the feeling it the identifying with a particular gender nature and that is far more important than any amount of wigs, make up, packers, pant suits or anything else cosmetic.
