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The LDS "church" & Transsexualism

Started by Witch of Hope, May 16, 2009, 10:31:43 PM

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tekla

Understood, and I'm not even sure what the Green icon is, perhaps a banana slug?
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tekla

Hey, if your messing with old "Randy Andy" Jackson then your steppin' on the fightin' side of me.  And him too.  Crusty old bastard he was.  And the first major public Presidential Sex Scandal too.  Just in case some people would be thinkin' that's a modern day invention.
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Chaos_Dagger

Laura, when you refuse someone services due race, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation,...ect ect.  That is discrimination, and that is what the churches do.  Yes I disapprove of churches, however I would never refuse someone any service I provided just because they believed in god, or hell even if they were Satan worshipers.

My point is simply, everyone is equally stupid, and should be treated as such.  However churches as a whole have a tendacy to say "I am better than you" for various reasons.  Of course as you stated yourself, MOST people have this HUMAN tendancy.  Individually it's something someone must deal with on their own.  The issue becomes when a ORGANIZATION actively promotes this kind of thinking, THEN it's a problem.

Am I willing to follow all majority voted laws? Yes I am.  I voted, and so did everyone else.  If a law comes to pass that I don't like, tough, more people liked it and so I must live with it.  If I'm really that against it, I can always move to country that doesn't have that law.

Believe it or not, I have met someone who believed themselves better than anyone else, and I did indeed against this person defend religion while pointing out all their flaws.  So don't you dare automatically assume I do this only against churches.

Also, your right that I can't say all unbelievers have found themselves wicked and judged themsleves.  However I can't say that about all churches either.  The bible its self tells you to not be discriminatory;

"God does not discriminate amoung his people" (Acts 10:34)
"All Christians are equal in God's eyes" (Galatians 3:28)
"God will judge those who discriminate" (Colossians 3:25)

So why then do you still believe churches should be allowed to refuse ANY services to anyone, when your god says its self that they should not discriminate? Answer me that.

Of course if you can find me the name of a single church that does not discriminate in ANYWAY I will recant my statements, until then I stand.
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tekla

Believe it or not, I have met someone who believed themselves better than anyone else

Believe it or not, I've gone to a big time grad school, work in show biz/rock and roll, and live in California - San Francisco at that - and gee, that statement pretty much applies to everyone I meet or have met.  Even the bums here sleeping in the doorways will tell you 'Hey, at least I'm not in Jersey.'

however I would never refuse someone any service I provided just because they believed in god, or hell even if they were Satan worshipers.

OK, I'll call BS on that one.  Would you knowingly work for and take the money of someone involved in Child Porno?  Slavery?  (In the US lots of Quakers, if not most of them, refused to do business with slaveholders, and I think they were righteous in that).


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tekla

I'll have to answer in a day or two, work calls.
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Suzy

Quote from: Adrianna on July 30, 2009, 09:57:44 AM
Am I willing to follow all majority voted laws? Yes I am.  I voted, and so did everyone else.  If a law comes to pass that I don't like, tough, more people liked it and so I must live with it.  If I'm really that against it, I can always move to country that doesn't have that law.

I am calling BS on that!  What if the law mandated discrimination against people with dark skin?  What if the law mandated the killing of Jews?  What if the law required seizure of all Japanese-American homes and assets without cause?  I could go on, but these are very modern happenings.  People should not just "live with it."  I give you more credit than that, too.

Quote from: Adrianna on July 30, 2009, 09:57:44 AMThe bible its self tells you to not be discriminatory;
"God does not discriminate amoung his people" (Acts 10:34)
"All Christians are equal in God's eyes" (Galatians 3:28)
"God will judge those who discriminate" (Colossians 3:25)

I think this is a good illustration of why government should not be allowed to interpret scripture and enforce their interpretation on the church.  They might just come up with as poor of work as you did (assuming you did not just cut and paste this from some source without checking it out.)  Those are not direct quotes, not even close.  While I do not disagree with those things you have in your quotes, they are not what these particular texts either say or intend.  So thank you for making the point quite clearly that outside interpretation and enforcement of Christian doctrine onto the church is nothing but a sham.

Kristi
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Chaos_Dagger

To Tekla, yes I would willing provide services to someone involved in Child Porn, However since that is against the law I would subsquently call the police on them.  I don't care who asks me to provide service that is none of my business, however knowing someone is involved in something illegal and calling the police on them is an entirely different subject matter.

As for Kristi, I got the qoutes I just posted out of the bible sitting right beside me, so don't you dare call my work uninformed or poor. 
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phantom_heart

She really did get the out of the bible that we had proping the screen of our computer up. I checked.

FYI this is the New living translation...easy to understand relevant for today. (thats what the cover says) I've had this bible for 6 years. It was givin to me by my youth paster because it has large print. and it does with out the Thy and thyn stuff...

Adrianna makes a point that i actually agree with *gasp* and that is that God loves us all. He says that. The rest can be tossed around and interprated however you want. hence the millions of diffrent chruches with the same bible.

So to run off topic even more...Ok this questions been bugging me for ever and i'm going to put your minds at work. IF Adam and Eve were the first people...and then they had Cain and able... when Cain kills able and god sends him out of Eden...where did his wife come from?
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phantom_heart

...what? There is no need to be sarcastic about it i'm asking a real question. Genisis contractics itself by  first saying "God created all the peoples of the earth" then into it he says he created Adam FIRST then and Eve and then it goes onto that story. Saying that they were the first people on earth. So if they had two sons.Able is killed by Cain And he cast Cain out where does he get his wife from....It never made sence to me. I was actually asking.

Just trying to make sence of something.

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phantom_heart

Quote from: Nichole on July 30, 2009, 01:56:14 PM
That wasn't sarcastic, if you read a bit further I think you will find that Cain settled with a wife in the Land of Nod. Presumably the land of Nod was occupied by human beings from somewhere, but no indication of where they came from.

Aliens....LOL hum i didnt find anything about the land of nod lol. Mabie this bible translation i have is really screwed up. Though i try to read the king james and i'm asleep in five seconds.

okay so another a little sarcastic a little seriuos question. Revelations.....seems to be the words biggest asid trip. Its the wierdist thing i've ever read in my intier life. Any way to de-wierd it.
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Chaos_Dagger

Quote from: Nichole on July 30, 2009, 01:56:14 PM
That wasn't sarcastic, if you read a bit further I think you will find that Cain settled with a wife in the Land of Nod. Presumably the land of Nod was occupied by human beings from somewhere, but no indication of where they came from.

Erica must not have been listening to me when I re-read it to her last night.  It does indeed say "Cain settled with his wife in the land of Nod" however that does not say where he got his wife.  Why must we presume the land of Nod was already occupied when genisis tries to be so clear on everything else.. seems a sorry little detail to miss.

P.S.
Revelations=Major Acid trip, only riviled by Alice In Wonderland
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Suzy

Quote from: Adrianna on July 30, 2009, 11:19:32 AM
As for Kristi, I got the qoutes I just posted out of the bible sitting right beside me, so don't you dare call my work uninformed or poor.

I certainly did not want to get into proof texting, but I absolutely stand by what I said, especially if that is where you got that from.   It is both poor and uninformed.  Get a reputable translation, rather than the NLT,  which was developed to be a dumbed-down easy reader version.  BTW, in case you did not know, I am reading those verses in both English and the original Greek.  I happen to be fully qualified to judge the accuracy of any translation.  Let me show you a version that accurately represents them.  Then you have to read the context to find what the verses are saying.  Here is a good translation of the Greek:  This one happens to be New American Standard.

Acts 10: 34-35 "Opening his mouth, Peter said : "I most certainly understand now that God is not one to show partiality, but in every nation the man who fears Him and does what is right is welcome to Him."
This is Peter's sermon concerning the fact that the gospel is now available to both the Jews and the Gentiles.  It has nothing whatsoever to do with discrimination in the modern sense.

Galatians 3:28-29 "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female ; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.  And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's descendants, heirs according to promise."
The context here is that the free male children, up to this time in history, had been the only heirs.   Women, slaves, and Gentles could not be heirs.  However, all now were included by faith as full heirs or the promise of eternal life.  The equality here is that all receive eternal life.

Colossians 3:23-25 "Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve. For he who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done, and that without partiality."
Again, this is a passage concerning relationships between individuals, along with the motivation for us doing our work.  It also speaks of God's justice in our eternal rewards.  It in no way refers to discrimination in the modern sense.  It is God's judgment (not ours) that is without partiality.

Can you see that by finding a little phrase and taking it completely out of context, you made verses say what they never were intended to say?  This is very dangerous, and completely unfair to do this and then use it as a basis to condemn the church.   If you want to argue scripture, at least do some work and discover what it means.   The church has plenty of faults, you do not have to invent others.   Any fair criticisms you might have are pretty much rendered lame and your credibility is scoffed at when you do things like that.  So...why should we expect governments to do any better?

If you want to discuss any other verse, I would be glad to do so, but please, let's do it by pm.

Kristi
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Witch of Hope on July 30, 2009, 06:40:41 AM
I have this subject, therefore, put in the forum because it makes me mad which power is given to the churches VOLUNTARILY. Churches are like own state with own rules within a state. Churches are protected, although they don't keep to laws. If a country, e.g., Germany, created laws of the protection of transsexual people(TS mayn't be fired), no church can go, and turn itself against it..
Some said here that nobody is made be with the Mormons. This is right only partially. Certainly nobody stands with a gun behind one, but the doctrines of the LDS and family boundaries, bind very strongly to this sect. And this is why many rather undertake them procedures of a "healing" degrade by Evergreen international, than to live openly. Since what happens, if to recognize itself as transsexual a Mormon gives in own family?
He or she will offend. He or she is put under pressure to be "normal" again. Help and support is to be expected in mormon families rather seldom.
But it is not only with the LDS in such a way!
In many other churches and sects transsexual people are also excluded or excommunicated.
So, it is not only a LDS problem.

In truth, all of society puts emotional pressure on transsexuals to deny their identity and try to be "normal"

It would be a false assumption to suppose that those who do not live in a religious family always or even usually receive complete acceptance.

Ultimately, a TS has to either face that pressure or submit to it - whether it comes from a church or a parent or a spouse or whoever.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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lisagurl

QuoteIn truth, all of society puts emotional pressure on transsexuals to deny their identity and try to be "normal"

"Transsexuals"?  Everyone, everyone is an individual and no one is average. It is society that forces expectations on people so they have to play a role.
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Chaos_Dagger

A reputable translation Kristi? Who are you to say which translation is correct?  Who is anyone to say.  Unless you can actually read the original scrolls yourself then you can't prove which translation is correct.  The most widely accepted translation is supposed to be the King James.  However it's called "the King James" translation because it's how King James told someone to write it.  Who's to say over the years the bible has not gone from being meant to be a complete work of fiction, and ancient story telling, that some fanatics took to far?  Seems to make the point of the bible (not the church in general just the relance on a BOOK) kind of a moot point don't you think?
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Adrianna on July 30, 2009, 09:57:44 AM
Laura, when you refuse someone services due race, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation,...ect ect.  That is discrimination,
Yes it is.
Quoteand that is what the churches do.
Yes they do
QuoteYes I disapprove of churches, however I would never refuse someone any service I provided just because they believed in god, or hell even if they were Satan worshipers.
But would you want your government FORCING you to, for instance, say a prayer over those people, or sing a hymm praising their God?
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My point is simply, everyone is equally stupid, and should be treated as such.  However churches as a whole have a tendacy to say "I am better than you" for various reasons. 
It's not just churches, hun.
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Of course as you stated yourself, MOST people have this HUMAN tendancy.  Individually it's something someone must deal with on their own.  The issue becomes when a ORGANIZATION actively promotes this kind of thinking, THEN it's a problem.
Why? Since when is it a civil right to be married at all, let alone in a place against the will of the person who owns the property? Our society has expanded the idea of "rights" to include a great many things which are PRIVILEGES
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Am I willing to follow all majority voted laws? Yes I am.  I voted, and so did everyone else.  If a law comes to pass that I don't like, tough, more people liked it and so I must live with it.  If I'm really that against it, I can always move to country that doesn't have that law.
that too, might be against the law. If they pass a law which requires you to submit to euthanasia because trans people are "defective" and must not be allowed to propagate - will you submit?
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Believe it or not, I have met someone who believed themselves better than anyone else,
I certainly believe that - such folks constitute the majority.
Quoteand I did indeed against this person defend religion while pointing out all their flaws.  So don't you dare automatically assume I do this only against churches.
Never did. Merely speaking on the subject at hand.
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Also, your right that I can't say all unbelievers have found themselves wicked and judged themsleves.  However I can't say that about all churches either.
If you understand Christian theology then you should be able to.
If they haven't they fail the basic test of being a Christian at all.
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  The bible its self tells you to not be discriminatory;

"God does not discriminate amoung his people" (Acts 10:34)
34Then Peter began to speak: "I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism
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"All Christians are equal in God's eyes" (Galatians 3:28)
28There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
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"God will judge those who discriminate" (Colossians 3:25)
25Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism.

In the first two, it speaks of GOD'S actions, it's not instruction. There are other passages where, for instance, Paul tells a church specifically to put out an unrepentant person ("turn them over to Satan") until the recognized their need to repent.
Everything has to be understood in context - prooftexting like that is exactly the sort of things legalistic Christians do to us and exactly what they use to justify the discrimination you refer to.

The third quote doesn't seem to have anything to do with what you said it said.

In any case, the Bible never says that you are to accept that which God disapproves of. now you and I both know that God doesn't disapprove of us...but within the context of what THEY believe, he does. And so you are asking them to obey the government over obeying God.

Here's another Bible quote for you:
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29But Peter and the apostles answered, "(A)We must obey God rather than men. (Acts 5:29)
THAT is the controlling principle for the church. It is balanced by Paul's instruction to obey the legal authorities, but the position of the church (any church) has always been that when the two cannot be reconciled, obeying God is most important.

I understand your position - and if you sincerly believe that this non-discrimination is a more important ethic than religious freedom then so be it - you are entitled to that view.

But do be honest with yourself and admit that you are willing to sacrifice Freedom in order to save peoples feelings.

Also, while it's not my business, I really don't think quoting the Bible inthis matter is your strongest argument. There's just too many other passages that would work against your case.
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So why then do you still believe churches should be allowed to refuse ANY services to anyone, when your god says its self that they should not discriminate? Answer me that.
Because your understanding of the quoted passages is flawed and there are many other passages which undermine the interpretation you ascribe to them.

Furthermore, even if the church has misunderstood the will of God and even if he really intended for them to never discriminate against anyone for any reason...

If you have a society in which true religious freedom exists, it is STILL not the place of the government to make that determination (i.e. "what God wants") - in a society with true religious freedom, a church is free to be wrong about what God wants

The only thing the government should be able to do is limit the extent to which any church imposes their doctrine on one who does not accept said doctrine.
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Of course if you can find me the name of a single church that does not discriminate in ANYWAY I will recant my statements, until then I stand.
I can't find you the name of ANY organization of human beings which doesn't discriminate AT ALL for any reason.

Can you?
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Tammy Hope

Quote from: ~Erica~ on July 30, 2009, 01:30:05 PM
She really did get the out of the bible that we had proping the screen of our computer up. I checked.

FYI this is the New living translation...easy to understand relevant for today. (thats what the cover says) I've had this bible for 6 years. It was givin to me by my youth paster because it has large print. and it does with out the Thy and thyn stuff...
Point of order - the "Living Bible" is a paraphrase, not a translation.

Which is to say, it is heavily influenced by the authors opinion, rather than being a direct translation of the original words.

And, as an aside, you can get quite a few different translations now that are free of the King James Elizabethan English.


The NASB might be the best, but there are easily half a dozen.
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Adrianna makes a point that i actually agree with *gasp* and that is that God loves us all. He says that. The rest can be tossed around and interprated however you want. hence the millions of diffrent chruches with the same bible.

So to run off topic even more...Ok this questions been bugging me for ever and i'm going to put your minds at work. IF Adam and Eve were the first people...and then they had Cain and able... when Cain kills able and god sends him out of Eden...where did his wife come from?
Well, assuming for the sake of the question this was literal history (a point I would not take a stand on)

If you read All of the first several chapters of Genesis you get many clues on this point:

1. Adam and Eve Lived HUNDREDS of years and thus logic suggests that had MANY children other than the two mentioned in the story.

2. Consider, God said "go forth and multiply" and there was no knowledge of birth control or reproduction. By the time Cain was, shall we say, 30, he likely was one of 25-30 siblings. And we do not know that the killing occurred when he was 30  - lets suppose it occurred when he was 200.

Then there may well have been 180-200 siblings, who themselves had had many children. YES, that implies intermarriage between siblings but that was not uncommon even as late as Abraham. The reason for this is that the genetic imperfections that make marriage between siblings unsafe today had not been reinforced by generations of breeding yet.

3. Let us assume quite conservatively that women did not begin childbearing until they were 20. that would mean that at the time Cain was 200, there would have been EIGHT generations of descendants old enough to have begun having children....and of course each of them in turn having multiple generations below them.

I'm no mathmatician but as a crude attempt:

Generation Zero: Adam + Eve (2)
Generation 1: Cain and Abel and siblings - one child from Eve every year, with some infant mortality, starting at age 20 = 150 children by the time Cain is 200, let's assume half are female
Generation 2: 75 females ranging in age up to 180 years, the oldest having been old enogh to bear children for 160 years and thus having up to 150 children of her own, again assuming half female and some mortality - call it 60 child bearing females. and each of her child-bearing sisters producing at a similar rate for a lesser period of time. Assume a mean of 30 daughters per mother and in the next generation you have at least 2200 child bearing females

See where this is going?

3. the bible speaks of Cain wandering among the cities of the earth or some such. So the population was obviously into the thousands.

4. We do not know how old Cain and Abel were at the time.

In short - Cain married a relative, either a sister or a neice or whatever. There would have been hundreds if not thousands of possibilities.


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Quote from: ~Erica~ on July 30, 2009, 01:52:52 PM
...what? There is no need to be sarcastic about it i'm asking a real question. Genisis contractics itself by  first saying "God created all the peoples of the earth" then into it he says he created Adam FIRST then and Eve and then it goes onto that story.

The reason for this is because it is an idiomatic function of Jewish storytelling at the time.

first you tell a general overview - a very broad statement of what the story is about...then you go back to the first and go into much detail.

It's one of the many ways in which a person really doesn't "get" the Bible unless they understand the context and culture behind it.


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Quote from: ~Erica~ on July 30, 2009, 02:03:55 PM
Aliens....LOL hum i didnt find anything about the land of nod lol. Mabie this bible translation i have is really screwed up. Though i try to read the king james and i'm asleep in five seconds.

okay so another a little sarcastic a little seriuos question. Revelations.....seems to be the words biggest asid trip. Its the wierdist thing i've ever read in my intier life. Any way to de-wierd it.

Not really but there is a way to understand WHY it's weird, and why all the end time prophecies in Daniel and so forth are weird.

(assuming for the sake of argument that the book is legit)

consider the fact that the claim is that God took a man who lived 2000 years ago and showed him events that still lay in OUR future.

How would a man of that day describe and understand, for instance, a helicopter, or a tank?


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Quote from: Adrianna on July 30, 2009, 04:53:50 PM
A reputable translation Kristi? Who are you to say which translation is correct?  Who is anyone to say.  Unless you can actually read the original scrolls yourself then you can't prove which translation is correct.

Bible scholars have thousands and thousands and thousands of documents from thousands of years ago which they use to verify the veracity of the content of the Bible.

One can easily question WHY the Bible should have any athority at all.

One CANNOT, if one is acquainted with the FACTS (which, may I say, quite a lot of internet experts are not) question whether or not what you find in a modern translation accurately reflects the original contents of the original texts.

where there are uncertainties, they are minor and they are well documented in any good study Bible so that the reader knows when they are reading an uncertain passage.

How do they know the texts they have are reliable?

Simple.

If you took a work of fiction, shall we say a John Grisham novel, and you ask every member of Susans to transcribe by hand the contents of that book and to be VERY vareful they got every word right - all of us would make errors.

but a third party could take all our works, compare them to each other, and find out what the book actually said at near to 100% accuracy because all our mistakes would be in different places

By shear chance, there MIGHT be a place where 100 of us all made a mistake, but it wouldn't be the SAME mistake which would undermine the chances that any of them were actually correct.

Even if the process is repeated for 100 years, an expert can take the existing copies and compare then and by the same method find out what the original content was - even if some of the transcribers had PURPOSELY miscopied it.

Even if you suppose one church or one group of churches conspired to change a text, the copies made by others would outnumber their work and disprove the credibility of the corruption.


Question whether the Bible is true? Or that it shold be followed?

Sure.

Question that it is an accurate representation of the original work? Anyone who does that is simply revealing their lack of acquaintance with reality.

With all due respect.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Tammy Hope

Well, to me it's all just an academic discussion within the context of the story.

Not at all unlike a discussion of the ramifications of time travel in Star Trek.

For instance, IMO everything that happened in enterprise is in a different timeline than previous Trek series because of the events of "First Contact"

:D

See my point though? - you don't have to believe a story is true to discuss plot points within the context of the story.
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Tammy Hope

Well, I didn't mean academic in the sense of actual scholarship...I meant simply in the sense of speaking of a subject within the context laid out by the subject. That can be an academic point, in the sense you mean, or it can be the discussion of the plot of a movie or it could be pretty much anything.

The point is only that If I say "frankly ol girl, Adam and Eve are a myth anyway" then Erica's question was meaningless. It is only possible to even address the question is you assume, for the sake of the discussion that the claims made in that particular Scripture are true.

Then it becomes not a matter of whether or not anyone ever actually lived 900 years, but whether or not the story is internally consistent.
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Genevieve Swann

When you are young and THEY decide to baptize you there are no questions. It is done without your consent.