Quote from: Julie Marie on September 29, 2009, 03:36:46 PM
There are a few things rarely talked about with GRS.
You will be numb down there for a while (6+ months). Swelling can take a year or more to completely subside. You will be very tight and lubrication will almost always be needed before intercourse. This is major surgery and recovery is lengthy. One friend of mine had GRS three years ago and she says she's now really feeling like everything is normal down there.
Julie
We must agree to disagree ...

I never had any numbness at all, problem was always more to do with sensitivity and tenderness.
Don't pressure yourself to have orgasm, it can take 6 months as you need to feel really relaxed with yourself and have no fears about being rather "rough" with a healing area. Don't compare post-op orgasm with pre-everything orgasm, its nice and if you're like me (even without a guy) you'll want to get there every day !
Brassard gives you OK lubrication, never had problems with unprotected sex as the sum of fluids is well enough ... but with rubbers - ouch !
Brassard is cute ...

French helps (least it did in the interim recovery facility before the new residence opened).
Montreal is a beautiful city, try spend some time there before you go home. Its indicative of Brassard that I was up for spending serious sightseeing and restaurant time at 10 days post-op, before my flight back on day 15 ...
Girl, you've made the best choice out there apart from maybe Meltzer !
Hugs,
Laura x