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Started by Bones, August 26, 2010, 01:02:05 PM

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Bones

Ok..I know this is a lot in my mind and I probably shouldn't be so weird about this but I hate harnesses. I always feel like a lesbian when I have this huge belt with buckles and clamps or whatever else happens to come on the things when I get them and I hate them all. Does anyone know of a place that has harnesses that don't LOOK so obtrusive? Something that might look more natural? Would be nice if they could make them flesh coloured instead of them black HERE I AM! Ones...

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Osiris

For soft packies early2bed has a jockstrap type harness. It's still black but it's not too flashy, goes nicely under your underwear and does a good job of holding everything in place.

I don't have a hard packie harness so I dunno about those.
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JesseA

yeah I just use a regular ole jock strap and it works perfectly, just looks like an underwear band and holds all my junk in place
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Cameron James

I use a modified jock strap. I just bought a jock strap from Walmart and some scrap fabric and sewed a pocket on to hold everything in place.


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Bones

Quote from: JesseA on August 26, 2010, 01:59:49 PM
yeah I just use a regular ole jock strap and it works perfectly, just looks like an underwear band and holds all my junk in place

Now that I never thought of. Thanks, Will try that. That looks more natural manly than a harness =) We can roleplay I'm a football player or something LoL...Just kidding
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insideontheoutside

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Meepit

Well, this isn't about a harness but it's about how you can get some packers to glue onto you. There are many prosthetics that you can glue onto yourself and USE and it'll stick for a couple of days. You can shower with it, get in bed with it, some are even packable! There are a few companies out there that do this sort of thing but I think I like the looks of LolaJake the best.

As for harnesses, I don't like the look of most of them as well....The only one I WOULD possibly consider is the SpareParts jock harness (or just a jock like people have mentioned). http://www.comeasyouare.com/default/index.cfm/shop/product/SpareParts-Jock-Harness-Size-A/

Or I think I saw someone use their underwear to hold the packer. I suppose it would work if you had tight undies and stuck the shaft out the top with the elastic of the undies holding the balls or maybe you could stick it out the fly? Personally I haven't tried any of these but I remember seeing this used somewhere.

Good luck either way  ;)
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Bones

Quote from: Meepit on August 27, 2010, 12:01:58 AM
Well, this isn't about a harness but it's about how you can get some packers to glue onto you. There are many prosthetics that you can glue onto yourself and USE and it'll stick for a couple of days. You can shower with it, get in bed with it, some are even packable! There are a few companies out there that do this sort of thing but I think I like the looks of LolaJake the best.

As for harnesses, I don't like the look of most of them as well....The only one I WOULD possibly consider is the SpareParts jock harness (or just a jock like people have mentioned). http://www.comeasyouare.com/default/index.cfm/shop/product/SpareParts-Jock-Harness-Size-A/

And it won't come off during sex? That would be nice...that's one of the other issues i have with packers and such...they tend to...be loose...so I have to hold it in place. I'm small anyway so most harnesses are too big on me to begin with
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Meepit

Quote from: Bones on August 27, 2010, 12:54:49 PM
And it won't come off during sex? That would be nice...that's one of the other issues i have with packers and such...they tend to...be loose...so I have to hold it in place. I'm small anyway so most harnesses are too big on me to begin with
What won't come off? The packer with glue or the harness? The packers/prosthetics are usually applied with medical grade adhesive and will stick for DAYS and even in the shower so I'm guessing it'd be relatively sturdy in bed. There are some manufacturers that haven't gotten the best reviews on sticking to your body (the company's name doesn't quite come to mind at the moment) so I'd suggest you do your research on that. I've heard LolaJakes (the packers I mentioned) stick very well, but of course this could vary. I'd suggest getting a lighter (as in weight) model because some guys had trouble with the heavier ones sticking such as Lucas. They're also relatively cheap for prosthetics or close-prosthetics compared to some of the $1000+ models seen elsewhere (I feel like I'm advertising for them!). I'm saving up for a pack and play LolaJake myself because I've heard pretty decent reviews and the bad reviews given for it didn't really strike me as too important. The main thing I wanted was something that would stay in place and would be packable as well as usable in bed and LolaJake seemed to fit the bill.

But overall, please do your research on this subject because what I want in a packer might be different than what you'd like in yours  ;D. If you'd like the other companies that do similar stuff or even the reviews I encountered I can probably find you the links. Good luck!
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Arch

I like TranzWear for everyday packing, but they don't have a model for dildos.
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Meepit

Quote from: Arch on August 28, 2010, 12:24:26 AM
I like TranzWear for everyday packing, but they don't have a model for dildos.

I was interested in those but couldn't decide which ones I'd go for. Which ones do you have and how do you like them?
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Arch

Quote from: Meepit on August 28, 2010, 12:26:17 AM
I was interested in those but couldn't decide which ones I'd go for. Which ones do you have and how do you like them?

Half of my underwear are the Snuggler and half are the Natural. I've never tried the Commando--it's pretty new--and I have never tried the Floater because the pouches are only attached at the top of the briefs. I haven't tried the regular briefs or the trunks, only the boxer briefs. The last time I checked, they were Hanes with the comfort-soft waistband. I like them.

The Snuggler has a large pouch for your packy. The pouch is open along the top of the underwear, but it's closed everywhere else. Unlike the pouch in the Floater, this one is anchored at the bottom of the underwear, so the packy stays relatively fixed and can't shift around to weird locations.

The packy never touches your skin, so you don't have to powder it as often (if you perspire at all, sweat does transfer to the packy through your shorts). But this is a very simple and neat design. You put your packy in, arrange it however you like, and you're off. The top opening is large, so you don't have to fight to get your device in. I like being able to arrange the penis portion any way I like. Sometimes I double up the packy so the penis is facing straight down, and sometimes I leave the penis pointing up or to the side.

Unless you adapt the Snuggler (which almost defeats the purpose of buying underwear that's already been adapted), you can't use an STP with it because the penis is fully contained in the pouch and doesn't make contact with your skin.

The Natural is quite different. There's a smallish pouch for the ball portion of the packy; right above that is a cock ring stitched into the underwear. The penis goes through the cock ring and rests behind the fly front. If you want, you can bring your penis through the fly front. If you have a realistic-looking packer, it just looks like a regular penis poking out of your fly front; nobody can see any balls or the cock ring or anything.

I guess you could use an STP with the Natural, but you should ask the site owner. Part of the packer makes contact with your skin--right about the spot where your medicine spoon or nipple would be. You would have to bring the STP out through the fly front rather than over the waistband as a lot of guys do. I don't make a habit of watching men use the urinal, but my last two cismale partners always brought their penises over the waistband. But I guess you work with what you've got.

I like the Natural because the balls absolutely stay flush against my crotch. Sometimes they can shift slightly sideways with the Snuggler--they can't twist around or anything, but they can get slightly out of whack so that you have to adjust them. Of course, adjustment is normal for guys. One thing I don't like about the Natural is that I have to carefully work the penis into the cock ring. With gel packers, this hasn't been a problem. With my Good Vibes packer, I have to be a bit more careful because it has more structural integrity than the gel packers. You don't want to rough up the packy too much because then it doesn't last as long. I don't know if they're still using the same size cock ring. You would have to ask. And, of course, since part of the packy makes direct contact with the skin, you have to wash and powder more frequently.

In this model, it's a little harder to double up your penis if you use the more rigid Good Vibes packy. So if you like a GV and want your penis to point down, you might want to experiment a bit with various underwear models.

The cock-ring is very secure; I have underwear that I've been using for about a year, and the ring is still going strong. However, the guy who owns the site recommends that you not put Naturals in the dryer. I've been machine-drying with no trouble, but I suppose I'm shortening the lifespan of the cock ring. Oh, and the site has a picture of these briefs turned inside out so that you can see how they're constructed.

I use TranZwear all the time except in the shower. They're great for exercising. I love 'em. And the guy who runs the site is really cool. Now they'll sell you a packer, too, so you don't have to buy your packer one place and your underwear another. The last time I looked, you got a discount for three of the same model, plus free shipping.

All right, that's all. I need a cup of coffee after writing this tome! But I hope it helps.
"The hammer is my penis." --Captain Hammer

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Meepit

Thanks for the thorough post Arch. Helps me a lot since I'm looking for new undies and packer-holders. Would you recommend them over the cock-socks (the sock-like things you velcro or pin to your underwear) and even some of the newer undies with pouches? Example: Andrew Christian's Show-It: http://www.andrewchristianshop.com/Show-It-Boxer-at-PID10500-9133.aspx
The video in the link shows the pouch.

The pouch underwear tends to be a bit pricey so if tranzwear makes basically the same thing I may as well go for them instead.

Thanks again for your detailed post and sorry OP for the random tangent!
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Arch

Meepit, I've never tried a cock sock, so I cannot compare. But I like the idea of having regular old Hanes (instead of pins and Velcro and harnesses) to hold my junk. No worries about getting stabbed or poked or having stuff fall out.

Thanks for that link--when you said they were expensive, I was thinking, "Well, TranZwear is not exactly cheap." Uh, compared to Andrew Christian, it is. Just bear in mind that the AC stuff is manufactured like that at the factory, and the TranZwear stuff is modified, probably by hand.

I don't believe I've ever run across anyone else at Susan's who has talked about experiences with TranZwear...I think I might have started a thread about it at one point, probably more than a year ago. Perhaps you can do that again and see if anyone else can compare TranZwear with these other options.
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Meepit

Yeah thanks for letting me know about the combo packages I might actually look into that  ;D I could kill 2 birds with 1 stone. I too am not a fan of the idea of getting poked in the junk by a so called "safety pin"....nothing SAFE about that....And I should have searched up tranzwear before I posted but I got excited  ::) apologies if there were repeats.
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insideontheoutside

Quote from: Arch on August 29, 2010, 12:52:59 AM
But I like the idea of having regular old Hanes (instead of pins and Velcro and harnesses) to hold my junk. No worries about getting stabbed or poked or having stuff fall out.

I agree! I've never had Hanes but I splurged on a bunch of Ginch Gonch and they're totally perfect. I've never actually needed a harness, everything stays put. If you're a boxer dude or like to free ball it sleeping that might pose a problem though and you'd need one for that!
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Radar

I can personally vouch for the Aslan Commando harness. Not much there but still very sturdy, quite adjustable and comfortable. It's easy to change the O rings and is perfect if your prosthetic has balls since it allows them to hang down. They claim it's perfect for bio-men to use if they want to... for whatever reason. It comes with a rubber O ring but, depending on your prosthetic, you may want to get some metal ones. If so get nickel-free ones so that they don't rust. There are several stores on the interest that sells this harness.

Meepit, I have a LolaJake and I'm quite pleased with it. I use it for play only- which is why I use a harness. They told me most guys use them with just the adhesive. I personally would be concerned about it coming off during play but it must work O.K. if alot of guys use it that way. I don't pack with mine or I'd look like a porn star and I'm sure it would feel uncomfortable.
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Meepit

Quote from: Radar on August 30, 2010, 06:50:07 PM

Meepit, I have a LolaJake and I'm quite pleased with it. I use it for play only- which is why I use a harness. They told me most guys use them with just the adhesive. I personally would be concerned about it coming off during play but it must work O.K. if alot of guys use it that way. I don't pack with mine or I'd look like a porn star and I'm sure it would feel uncomfortable.

Oh good, more positive feedback on LolaJake  ;D! If you don't mind me asking, which model did you get?
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Radar

Quote from: Meepit on August 30, 2010, 07:10:09 PMOh good, more positive feedback on LolaJake  ;D! If you don't mind me asking, which model did you get?

The Lucas Plus. They're very good about answering any questions you have and I found them quite helpful.
"In this one of many possible worlds, all for the best, or some bizarre test?
It is what it is—and whatever.
Time is still the infinite jest."
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Arch

Come to think of it, I want a cheap harness I can use in the shower. I do NOT want to make my own. Any recommendations?
"The hammer is my penis." --Captain Hammer

"When all you have is a hammer . . ." --Anonymous carpenter
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