I'm gay, and attracted to men. The genitals they posses isn't important, as long as they're men xD. Right now I'm with a biological male. It makes sex easier and less expensive since we only need one strap-on :'P. It also means I can get pregnant since I still have vaginal sex XP. Don't judge me ;_;! We don't even like calling it vaginal sex, we just call it "anal #2"! D:

Hey, I won't judge...
Anal takes fuss to do "right"... there's cleaning, timing, condom, lubricant, etc...
The vagina's there, it "works"... It's "convenient"... and I can't get pregnant... so.. *shrug*
Why not?

I'm asexual. I'm not really into people in that way.

Quote from: jade on December 28, 2010, 12:05:43 AM
Hi,

I'd like to learn about the sexual orientation of FtM's.
One FtM I was in touch with through the internet told me most FtM's are attracted to each other?
Is this true? What is their sexual pattern like? Thanks. 

No, no, and no. Whoever said that can't say something like that. I have no attraction to FtMs. I am attracted to cisgender men, cisgender women, and transgender women (mostly cis men and transwomen).

I'm Asexual, thank you very much.

However my romantic oreintation is somewhere between aromantic and heteroromantic.

Most of the trans* people I've met have different sexualities. My friend, another FtM is gay, another is straight, and I'm pansexual.
It has nothing to do with the gender of the person.
It depends on their tastes, I'm more romantically attracted to women, but psychically attracted to men.

I've actually heard the "ftms are attracted to other ftms"; I don't really know where it originates.  I guess ftms date ftms more than other guys do, because they're obviously more likely to be open to that, but that's as far as it seems to go.  Personally, I'm bi and don't really care about whether someone is trans or not.

I've never heard that one. It seems FtM's are more likely to date a bioboy over a FtM. 

I'm a gay transguy, though there is a possibility of me being slightly bisexual with heavily homosexual tendencies. Does that make sense? I don't know.

I love the boys. FTM or biologically, they are still boys. I think I would almost prefer an FTM if only because (as others have pointed out) they know the experience.  I would never say that most gay/bi FTMs prefer FTMS, it's just a comforting thought that they know what I'm going through. It also would make the whole "I'm a guy but I don't have a dick" chat awkwardness go away.

I'm iffy on the girls, though. I sorta like a girl I know (she is lesbian, so that irritates my dysphoria when she flirts- not saying she's into me, she's a flirty person) who is a massive tomboy. She works out regularly (she's training to enter the protective services at our votech) and never wears girly things. Also- no offence intended here- the female body parts make me extremely uncomfortable due to my own dysphoria. Breasts aren't that bad, but the lower bits are a major turn-off.

-Gregg-

Quote from: DegrassiFan on January 16, 2011, 01:33:12 AM

No, no, and no. Whoever said that can't say something like that. I have no attraction to FtMs. I am attracted to cisgender men, cisgender women, and transgender women (mostly cis men and transwomen).

Sorry if this is an invasive question, but why not trans men? You like are open to women with vaginas, women with penises or who had penises, men with penises.... but not men with vaginas? Or even without, if bottom surgery is involved? What about genderqueer or androgynous people?

BISEXUAL!

Maybe Pansexual if your super-awesome

I tend to take on the femme role with guys but the "masculine" role with girls. If that makes sense.

It boils down to if the boy is taller than me Ill generally take on a more submissive role. If he's shorter Ill take charge....Im very height conscious.
Girls, Ill still take the submissive role asin we can go out where they want to, Id like to pay for meals, drinks etc but whatever, but in more intimate times i definately take charge.

I dont know how else to explain it. 

I've always been asexual. Never been interested in intimacy, doubt that taking T will change that for me.
I do appreciate a good looking person though, whatever they may be. 

I'm gay all the way and I love it. I love me some pretty boys!! Hehe.

I'm more interested in the personality than the body, and that includes what resides in the pants So trans or cis makes no difference for me, although with trans it might be easier as we wouldn't have any awkward convos to deal with.

I'm gay. I like all guys including ftms (if they're on T that is).

Asexual. There are more of us here than I expected.

I dunno. I'd say that it's logical, because there's that strong sense of intimacy but...I dunno. I treat all my guy transfriends as bros, you know? I do feel kinda bleak when I realize that my cisgender girlfriend has just never felt this way, whatever qualms she has with her body though.

I have this thing for androgynous women. I swear, when my gf got a haircut my length (a 5 with clippers more or less), I pretty much jizzed in my pants. So in theory I would like early-on transguys as a fetish, but I know the pain too well, I guess. I've found myself completely attracted to transgirls on the other end.

I think, in truth, that transcouples just look awesome to media and whatnot. The world wishes there were more of them--just like lesbian schoolteachers and their students. MOAR

Hi guys
I'm sorry for my reply.
One of the guys told me this was a thread for the guys
I didn't read well I think, this is for the ftm's.
Excuse me for intruding and ignore my reply.

hugs
(silly dutch) annette

No worries annette.  It's interesting to hear opinions from both sides.

Edit: I guess with that being said, I never did add my opinion.  I've never met an FTM who is only into other FTMs, but I can see how it would be nice to have a relationship with someone who understands.  As for me, (other people's) gender isn't really an issue.

I've been becoming more open to the idea of gay and bi men since starting T.  Normally I'm attracted to bi females (whether cisgender women or not) simply because I can fulfill both sides of the spectrum in terms of my partner's fantasy and my disphoria doesn't get in the way of that - as long as they love me romantically, I'm happy.  If they're satisfied in bed, it's a huge turn on for me and I'm happy.  However, whether I'm with a man, woman, MTF, FTM, or a genderqueer, I only get dysphoric in bed I start hearing female comments ("I love your boobs" etc.  Not cool with me.)

Basically though, I like anyone who ISN'T a straight macho type male who feels as though he has to fit every stereotype about men.  Luckily for me these types of men are becoming less of the norm.