I was thinking about gay men and their role models, and against my role model.... Gay men usually have extremely flamboyant-over-the top women or very masculine women. Like Cher (deep voice), Madonna, Lady Gaga, Beyonce.
My role models as I was growing up were Jenna Jameson, Sasha Grey, Vivien Leigh, Marilyn Monroe (even though all people like her), and Megan Fox, and Early-Madonna (she appealed to women in the 80s as well).
I don't really know if there's a correlation on who you are versus your role model.