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Sexual Orientation of FtM's

Started by jade, December 28, 2010, 12:05:43 AM

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Jamie-o

I'm attracted to men.  I prefer bio-men, but I wouldn't rule out FtM.
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Da Monkey

I've never even thought of the concept of two FTM's dating each other, that's interesting.

I've dated women most of my life but I had a sort-of secret boyfriend when I was in college a couple of years before I came out as trans.

Somehow I got lucky when I first came out as trans I started dating my girlfriend who identifies as heterosexual and we've been together ever since.

I identify as heterosexual, but realistically I think everyone is bi/pansexual in some way.
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BigDEvs

I have been in a relationship with a bio female for eight years. I am attracted to girls. Also, like LaPapito, I do not like sex (on me) through my birth sex organs. I find it uncomfortable and it doesn't feel right. I have always wondered if other straight FTMs feel the same way?
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Nate

I'm generally attracted to transpeople and cis women.
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Vancha

I'm pretty much a true pansexual.  I'm attracted to whoever I think is attractive.  Genitals mean pretty much nothing to me; I could date intersex people without a worry, and FtMs and MtFs pre-everything as well.  It really does not matter to me.  I'd be game for dating an FtM, actually... I think it would be a nice experience.  However, I love being single and am a very solitary person, and I like it that way, so if I ever do date, it'll be quite a while from now.
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sony

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Make_It_Good

Ive never been attracted to an Ftm, or bio guy (or butch woman...)
   Ive never ever used the wrong and female parts for sex. The idea of this, for me is completely disgusting and wrong.

So, to sum it up :p Im straight!
I am in a long term relationship with a bio female. (And she is amazing :) )
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thathalfjapaneseirishboy

I'm pretty pansexual, I suppose, I don't really like labelling my sexuality. I'm just attracted to the person, that's all. It doesn't matter to me where they are cisgender, transgender, or intersex.
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Battle_On

I'm gay and I have a preference for bio guys.
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ty.to.the.man

i like bio-women all my life. i have nevr been attracted to MTF's or FTM's or any men.
and i wish i was in a relationship rite now   :'(
-- Alexander Tyler (call me Tyler though)   8)
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piers816

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I'm pansexual, but I don't want a sexual relationship just yet. I'm attracted to cis-men and cis-women, along with transfolk.
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quinn

I'm attracted to women, and I'm attracted to FTMs who don't get bottom surgery. It's not a fetish, I'm just not comfortable with, uh, "man-parts". Lol it probably has something to do with the fact that I have a phobia of pregnancy/getting pregnant (I've been with a cis-guy before and I couldn't enjoy it because I was so freaked out I'd get pregnant, even though we'd both taken preventative measures). Maybe after I get a hysterectomy I'll be bisexual (or pansexual; what exactly is the difference?). Until then, I'm just... mostly straight :)
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Espenoah

I am 98% of the time gay. I love men.
Sexually, I don't think I could ever be with a woman. I just have no idea what I would do with their parts. o.o Although I've never had sex, so I don't know for sure.
Sadly, this includes preop FtMs, which makes me feel like a giant hypocrite. :/ Those parts just...scare me I guess.
But this also includes MtFs, just because their women. Maybe it's just the thought of having sex with anything remotely female scares me. Not saying at all that FtMs are female. God I'm rambling, hopfully you guys get what I mean.
Emotionally, I could be attracted to anyone methinks.
Physically, I love guys of all types. I see attractive women, but they don't catch my eye like guys do.

So long story short, I would only seek sex with cismales, but I'm open to a long term relationship with anyone. So it's psuedo-pansexuality? I have no idea what to call this...
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Superrad

I identify as gay. I like men, including trans-men. I'd feel awful, especially when thinking of cis men having those same reservations.
I have liked females, but never in a truly sexual sense. I don't completely rule it out, but to be an 'exception' is pretty rare so I keep it simple.
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Nikolai_S

Quote from: Espenoah on March 26, 2011, 04:46:45 AM
So long story short, I would only seek sex with cismales, but I'm open to a long term relationship with anyone. So it's psuedo-pansexuality? I have no idea what to call this...

I've heard people use "panromantic."
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Ryno

I consider myself heterosexual, as do the other transguys I know. Well, minus one engaged couple who are both FtMs but I doubt either of them are strictly interested in FtMs.

I now and then find myself THINKING a certain guy has a really nice body or even fantasizing about gay sex, but when I leave fantasy-land and consider REALLY doing it, I'm instantly turned off. I guess it's the idea of male genitalia functioning sexually, and kind of projecting the idea onto myself. You know, watching another guy get off makes me imagine myself in his shoes.
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AndyTL

WELLLLLLL...

I prefer Transguys, but I'm a "gay" guy who has "cissy-phallus" dislike, I love masculine people and I could have sex with a Ciss-male, but I'd just prefer not to unless he's quite small. I'm a bottom who uses both "doors", I just prefer that what goes inside me is either small or made of plastic. I also love masculine women so don't get me wrong, I am in no way bias, I guess I'd prefer a "comfortable with his queer sexuality" Tguy or a masculine woman. Of course, this is only sexually...

Romantically and relationship wise, I will never be with someone who isn't in someway Queer. I am just not attracted to hetero-normity. I have no binaried to the people I date though, I just like 'em masculine, GQ, Andro, FtM, or even some MtF... if there are masculine in mind, I'm attracted.

Although, I find that FtM guys have a tendency to clasp onto hetero-style lifestyles, no one is that easily stereotyped.
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Kadel

I'm mostly attracted to women. I'm open to the idea of being with a guy, just it feels awkward for me. Thus, women are my attraction.
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JamesChristopher

I would say pansexual. I've been attracted to men, women, non-binaries ... I'll be honest, I'm attracted to a lot of people of varying genders and orientations.

Also, quinn, you asked "I'll be bisexual (or pansexual; what exactly is the difference?).". The difference is that bisexual people are attracted to only two genders (say, male and female, or agender and female, or genderqueer and androgyne, etc., etc.), whereas someone who is pansexual is attracted to all genders. For instance, I have a friend who is attracted to both men and women, so she identifies as bisexual. I've been attracted to people of every different gender that I've encountered, so I identify as pansexual. There are also people who are trisexual or quadsexual, depending on how many of the various genders they are attracted to. So, someone who is attracted to men, women, and agender individuals would be trisexual, and so on and so forth.
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Leek

Quote from: Andrew T on March 28, 2011, 03:15:45 AM
WELLLLLLL...

I prefer Transguys, but I'm a "gay" guy who has "cissy-phallus" dislike, I love masculine people and I could have sex with a Ciss-male, but I'd just prefer not to unless he's quite small. I'm a bottom who uses both "doors", I just prefer that what goes inside me is either small or made of plastic. I also love masculine women so don't get me wrong, I am in no way bias, I guess I'd prefer a "comfortable with his queer sexuality" Tguy or a masculine woman. Of course, this is only sexually...

Romantically and relationship wise, I will never be with someone who isn't in someway Queer. I am just not attracted to hetero-normity. I have no binaried to the people I date though, I just like 'em masculine, GQ, Andro, FtM, or even some MtF... if there are masculine in mind, I'm attracted.

Although, I find that FtM guys have a tendency to clasp onto hetero-style lifestyles, no one is that easily stereotyped.

God, Andy, why do you always have to be so complicated about everything?  ;)

Anyway, like Andy here, I prefer partners that are some flavor of queer for similar reasons, but because I'm straight, I tend to gravitate towards MTF's for the most part instead.

I'm not attracted to men, including FTM's. Though I have heard of that stereotype of FTM's getting together (my two best friends fall into that category), in my experience it's not that common.
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