Quote from: JessicaR on April 19, 2011, 11:20:15 PM
Gypsy,
I know that my ideas may be radical to you... BUT...
You need to contact your local Trans community and try to find a new doctor that's really trans-friendly. Please, do not accept the discrimination you've faced.
Fight, girl....
Don't you dare tell me that you "don't want to make waves" or that you're willing to accept how you're being treated... STAND UP and FIGHT! You have the right to be treated with dignity and the right to be who you are. Fight!!
In matters like these, I am proactive. I called damn near every doctor on my PCP list in my area to find one doctor that had had transgender patients before. Out of maybe 25 calls, I got several people (including the physician themselves) who tried to preach to me, several who had no idea what transgender was, most who said they knew the term and had moral issues with dealing with it, and none who had actually treated TG patients before.
After my minor meltdown a couple of weeks ago, I tried to do the same thing with psychiatrists and while looking for someone else, found a psychologist (apparently only one of two in Nashville) who specialized in treatment and care. It was he who suggested the doctor I called, and he got the name from the TVals website (
http://www.tvals.org/). I'm not sure what other options are available to me. The only other medical doctor on the website has the specific note that he's strict and makes you jump through a lot of hoops before you can even get hormones.
I'm not really a drama queen, but I've been kinda feeling the "world is against me" vibe the last few weeks. I mentioned my troubles from the doctor call to my friend yesterday and her response was that it was perfectly reasonable they required it, because if they didn't, she'd want to go get a boob job and a tummy tuck and have her insurance cover it. Needless to say, that comment stung.
Ugh. I'll probably just pay the $150 in a few weeks when I get the money to do it because I don't see how I can fight the medical community, the insurance company, and peoples' prejudices all at the same time. And Bismarck was only worried about a war on two fronts...