Are people upset with what I wrote or something? Seems to be a lot of sarcasm here.....

I don't read sarcasm but I could be wrong.

Quote from: Fumbling Towards Ecstasy on June 10, 2011, 12:15:10 PM
Are people upset with what I wrote or something? Seems to be a lot of sarcasm here.....

Sarcasm is a way of life here

Oh, and beware of any androgynes bearing fruitcake or bacon

BACON! mmm...

Quote from: Fumbling Towards Ecstasy on June 10, 2011, 12:15:10 PM
Are people upset with what I wrote or something? Seems to be a lot of sarcasm here.....

There is sarcasm all over the place. Watch where you're stepping or just do like most of us and ignore it with a smile.

Looks like I'm wrong.
Probably why I can't connect.

Quote from: espo on June 10, 2011, 03:13:30 PM
Looks like I'm wrong.
Probably why I can't connect.

You're connected here....Tangential drifting is a part of the normal conversations. You can bring them back to where you want them, without any ill will. But that does become an invitation to silliness, such as fruitcake and bacon. It's all done with love, so don't worry.

Is the fruitcake soaked in rum?

Maybe.

Quote from: Darrin on June 10, 2011, 12:15:10 PM
Are people upset with what I wrote or something? Seems to be a lot of sarcasm here.....

I didn't read any sarcasm, but we are prone to thread drift.  Feel free to remind us to get back on topic. 

Quote from: Darrin on June 09, 2011, 06:03:27 PM
Why thank you! I think it's an interesting journey for sure. I can't wait to see what happens!

Today I got a call from the hospital that would be doing my reduction. They still need my Dr.'s referral. My Dr.'s office said they sent it, but the hospital said they never got it. Typical. I'm thinking I might get the reduction first. I'm not sure if I should bring up the idea of a chest reconstruction with the surgeon if I'm not 100% sure I want to do that. I do want to know it won't cause any issues if I decide to do it in the future. I'm also concerned it might put him/her off of surgery or might mess with my insurance. Any ideas?

Meanwhile back at the original topic ranch, Darrin has a question I'm not even somewhat qualified to answer.

Thanks man.

I actually don't mind if things go off topic. I've been on internet message boards for close to 10 years. I know how they work. I just thought I wasn't getting taken seriously.

Our seriousness is sometimes filled with silliness and drift. It's up to the OP or someone who has a serious answer to get back on track sometimes. Unfortunetly, I haven't even a glimmer of an answer for you.

Oooh!, glimmer...something shiny....

The question was essentially, "I don't feel fully male or female, reckon I could call myself andro?"
The answer is, "Yes."

Oh was it more complicated?

I don't know anything about the issues with having both surgeries, except that there are two different types of final surgery depending on the current size.

I would think that you could raise the question of how small doc could go without raising any eyebrows.  Seems to me to be a normal question and I'm sure they'll ask you what size you're planning on.  I would just ask them at that time what your options are.  I think that would tell you a good bit about their feelings on it.

Perhaps someone on the FTM board might have more info or have done this before; have you tried them?   I'm not sending you away, just trying to help.  Come back here and let us know if you find out anything and definately let me know how the appt. goes.

I think LilDoberman has the right idea.  The FTM boards probably have more information about top surgery and any complications that might go along with it.

There aren't that many of us who are transitioning (at least at the moment), so it's harder for us to answer that question.

Yeah, that makes sense. I did post the question to the FTM forum as well. Waiting on a reply.

I've seen people define "androgyne" as "having both feminine and masculine characteristics or not identifying strongly with either." I assume people wouldn't write things like that if you were the only one who felt like you.

I'm still trying to figure things out myself but I think you got the right idea.

Thanks!

I talked to my therapist today and I'm going to see if I can use my name (Darrin) in school to see how it feels. I think it's a good step in figuring out the right path for me...