I'm a risk-taker... but I open up 3-4 dating profiles for this EXACT reason, since I had no money... and I wanted a guy. So, in May when I was more fatasy-view of my life I wanted any guy I could get, so I had like over 60 guys offering me a nice home in California, nice condo, nice yacht, traveling, blah blah blah you name it I had it offer. From the weirdest to the most fantastic, BDSM-slavery to the Netherlands, from CEO to guitar guy traveling on the road, from a record deal guy to a theater guy in NY.... so many guys so little time, but all awesome. (over the span of time)
But then coming down to reality, I had to do college, and I have it for free in my state, so I decided, "I have to go find a guy in my state...ehhhh". So I went to a more mutual dating profile (my other sites were
houseboy.com,
houseboi.com, and one I don't want to mention lol)... so I just got this guy thinking I am the one... tonight actually. So now I won't be homeless, he makes 2500 off some pension (400 goes to his rent), and he will use the rest to buy us food/clothing/little fun. He's not a rich guy, by no means, but I am going to be treated well, taken care of, and he knows how to treat me like a woman (even if he doesn't know this).
The reason I like him a lot, since he really cares about me, and I will really care about him too. I might grow to love him, but I rather not unless he's the one. He was married for over 20 years to a woman, and so that rubbed off him obviously, he said "I'll take you out and buy us dinner". And I said, "I'll pay half", and he was like, "No you're my date, I'll pay for it". (I love this by the way)...
So I feel like I found a good guy who might love me.
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Now what I recommend for you is not this ^ Even though it works for me. But don't go homeless though that's really tough. I would focus on
daddyhunt.com, since that's where I found my man... but you're now a transsexual woman? So hmmm... I don't know really. But this is my experience.
I never was abused by men so I don't have a clue... all I ever received from men (gay men) was love and adoration. I had good relationships with all the men I ever meet. But this is the riskiest thing of my life... trying to make a man fall in love with me is tough, but can be done in 1 day. I do it all the time.... so many times I had guys saying, "You're the one for me, and I am so glad I met you. You're so beautiful" I don't know, guess it's magical typing skills.
But, I am also repressed with me, since I still have my virginity... shockingly I do. And I am now ready to go for a full-fledge relationship, and if I lose it then it will be with someone who loved me at the time period.