On a genderspectrum:  An androgynous/feminine person , sadly I'm mostly seen as a androgynous/gay male (My birthsex). I'm not settling for that, even though I am good at pulling it off...it's a dread and an incomplete picture

As a human being: Colourful


Also (for the derailers) ...Mudkipz..

Sometimes I just wish to be seen. Like when important ->-bleeped-<- is being discussed and everyone has an opinion about whats best or they think they are the expert because thats what they do for a living so I should just follow their advice and I'm going but..but..but and it's like I become invisible, opinion invalid, Non-creditialed people out of the room.  But it's my liiiiiiiiifffffee.   

At the end of the day, I would wish to be seen as just me. Not Vi (the name my boyfriend gave me, works well) the guy, not Vi the girl. Just Vi.

Concerning appearance, though, I do have some interest in looking a little more feminine. Right now, I look like my genetic sex, quite male. Honestly, I don't mind it too much, but I think some changes to the wardrobe will eventually be in order. Also, I am in the process of letting my hair grow out, and seeing how that works for me.

At the end of the day, I would wish to be seen as just me. Not Vi (the name my boyfriend gave me, works well) the guy, not Vi the girl. Just Vi.

Can you describe what I would see if I saw just Vi.

Quote from: espo on August 08, 2011, 10:32:35 AM
Sometimes I just wish to be seen. Like when important ->-bleeped-<- is being discussed and everyone has an opinion about whats best or they think they are the expert because thats what they do for a living so I should just follow their advice and I'm going but..but..but and it's like I become invisible, opinion invalid, Non-creditialed people out of the room.  But it's my liiiiiiiiifffffee.   

Is it always 25 to 8? or 7:35? I usually just walk out of the room laughing, cause I just know something is wrong with 99.9875% of all discussions. If anyone asks, I just say you'll find out. then when it doesn't go as thought, I just remind them they forgot to ask me. And walk away again. If everything does work out, they won't even realize they didn't ask you, anyways. They will be to busy thinking how smart they are. But, you always have to bring something of value to the discussion to be a participant.

Quote from: espo on August 09, 2011, 07:18:11 PM
At the end of the day, I would wish to be seen as just me. Not Vi (the name my boyfriend gave me, works well) the guy, not Vi the girl. Just Vi.

Can you describe what I would see if I saw just Vi.

An empty white room with me standing in the middle of it.

2035hrs  Sir!

only once a day? I'd rather have the twice a day version. Remember, military intelligence is an oxymoron. (Not that I'm not....)

Oops, that should be 1935hrs  lol  I agree with the twice a day version

Nice catch!...   the sun was in my eyes....

Ativan

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