Okay, I went to a convenient store tonight to grab a few snacks, and when I went up to the clerk, he called me a "marvelous lady". because I was so surprised, I responded quietly with "lady?", and he said "you're very gorgeous."
That made me feel like a million dollars.
Oh and the reason it was so shocking to me was because I'm not living full time as a woman yet, I don't wear female clothes or jewelry, and I have never worn make-up.
So much for killing myself. This could turn out alright!