Quote from: MrTesto on August 25, 2012, 08:40:53 PM
Also, about the crack above about Annah and the "religion" that is "against" her: most of the mainline denominations are learning more about trans people every year.
After pastoring for over a decade I have seen this time and time again. And here is the ironic thing:
It isn't the Christians who are usually against me or is mind boggled that an LGBT is a pastor. It is almost always those who are not Christians who attacks me the most. For example, when it comes to a ratio, for every 1 Christian who attacks me (making fun, bewildered, thinks I am stupid) for being a "gay" minister there are easily 5 who claims tolerance and love for all religions (or no religions) who will attack me for what I believe.
Honestly, I could really care less how people feel about me. Whatever they feel about me, so be it. I have a church who needs me, supports me, and loves me. So when people say "I cannot see how Annah can be for a religion that hates her" I just smile and go back to what I am called to do. You see, they are so focused and only believes that Fundamentalist/Conservative Christianity is the only form of Christian worship out there....even when people tell them there are DOZENS of denominations who embrace LGBT. I believe it has to do with an issue that they want to dislike something so much that if they learn there are beautiful Christians out there who loves EVERYONE regardless of sexual or gender orientation then it will completely nullify why they are angry in the first place. It is much easier to just stay angry than to admit maybe it isn't needed to stereotype an entire spiritual group of people.
I am also ecumenical. Meaning, I embrace all religions and spirituality as long as it does not require harming, maiming, or killing people (as a whole...I am not talking about fringe groups within a peaceful religion).
With that said, I have seen horrible and nasty people in every single religion who thinks theirs are the best, the right one, the perfect one. I've seen it all...from One end of the hyper religious spectrum to the Atheist to the Witch. Everything. Nothing is new under the sun.
Is my religion perfect? Nope. But it's not all bad either. It's just like everything else in this world. You either decide to gnash your teeth against the bone and break some teeth in the process or you can take your time and find the tender meat to digest.
When I see people say "Oh Religion 'A' Sucks...it's evil...it's against <subject>, try my religion" it raises red flags.
When I see people say "Oh my religion isn't perfect. It isn't my God (Goddess) that is evil...its how God's (Goddesses') followers incorrectly represent my diety...but we also have good people and the good people makes it worth it" then I hear the honesty in their voices.
So when people say "How can you pastor in a religion that hates your kind?" I then respond, "How can I not?? Does it not take reform to show people the errors they are committing? Do you think that will happen on it's own...naturally?" Also, having dozens of denominations and hundreds of churches who are wanting to Ordain me...not because of my Gender Identity (many, many churches aren't phased I am trans), but because of my calling just tells me people really don't know what they are saying when they think I am in a religion where people hate me. That's when I smile and just walk away...feeling sorry for them because they will never want to see the entire picture. Just the shadows.
I am not just typing this up on a whim. I have experience in this. Life experience. I go to one of many, many, many Seminaries that has students of all backgrounds studying Christianity. Gays, Jews, African Americans, Africans, Trans, Lesbians, Bi, Pan, Atheists, Muslims. Matter of fact we have a Iranian refuge family living one building away from me on Campus at the Seminary. He served in the Iranian Royal Guard and then his family sought Asylum. We have created a safe space for him and his family to practice Islam and to read the Quran without fear of being killed.
We have Atheists who are taking the Masters of Religion Program because they have a desire to learn the history of Europe, America, Etc within a religious context. We treat them with the same respect we would treat the Pope if he entered our school.
Our Vice President is a wonderful gay man and is married to our Bookstore Manager. Our Dean of Admissions is a wonderful gay man. Half of our campus are lesbians. About 20% are gay men. I am the only trans in which only 5 people and the administration knows about.
Our Church leaders are gay, lesbian, and trans and straight. And our Seminary is considered one of the more "Conservative Seminaries" within our United States Association.
So when I hear people say "Christians hates gay people" I just think nothing of it. They listened to Pat Robertson and all the other Conservative people...and if they have no desire to see the other side of Christianity, then that is something they have to work out. I am not in the business to point it out to every single person. Twenty minutes on Google would show anyone not every Christian is against the stuff people think.
And when people get up in arms because I believe in a God or say they are offended, I too just smile and walk away. Because no matter how much side A argues with side B about whether or not a particular God, god, Goddess exists...at the end of the argument you are right back to square one. No one has won anything. Maturity is when you can respect someone's beliefs in a God while that person who believes in a God can respect the person who does not believe in a God.
Throwing mud in peoples' eyes about whether or not God exists makes about as much sense to me as the /Trade Chat Channel in World of Warcraft on a Saturday afternoon.
Just remember, when you become intolerant of something through a stereotypical belief system (ex: Christianity hates gay people) then you are just as guilty as the religion(s) you talk about. Intolerant.