Well, the surgery situation is looking up a bit. My parents asked more about it and my mom was like "omg what if you have a bad reaction to anesthesia and someone needs to make a life or death decision? It's all the way in Florida! How will you get groceries?" So one of them will be going down with me whenever I can book it. Meaning my dad can use points that he has to cover the airfare. So now, my concern is only $7000 as opposed to $10,000.
I have to admit too, this is a very big step for them. I have to wonder if it will be emotional to know that their "daughter" is going in there to get "her" boobies cut off, or if they've already made their peace with the fact that "she" is gone.
Truth be told, despite their shortcomings, I can see that they truly do love me. For a while I wondered, for many reasons that were not transition-related. But they wouldn't do that if they didn't. And my dad said he kind of liked having me around the house. Better than when I was 18 where he asked "why is she even still here?"